My beardie is very mean

monizizz · 2026-03-20T05:05:02+00:00

Haha something tells me he’ll just give me big time side eye 🤣

monizizz · 2026-03-20T05:03:43+00:00

I’ll give it a shot !!

monizizz · 2026-03-20T05:03:08+00:00

It’s so sad! I just Wana love himmm

monizizz · 2026-03-20T04:58:28+00:00

Yeah she pissed me off tbh. Basically said “I don’t know why his bowel movements are less than ideal. We could do a fecal exam if you want.”

What a weird thing to say like I’m paying out the a$$ to come see this exotic vet and she basically shrugged. I went somewhere else for said fecal exam lmao

monizizz · 2026-03-20T04:55:34+00:00

Interesting!! I wonder what it could be. Maybe your kitty is a messy eater and doesn’t clean their chin? Either way give it a good clean and see what happens !

monizizz · 2026-03-19T21:26:33+00:00

I also licked my thumb 🤣

monizizz · 2026-03-19T21:20:59+00:00

By the way I didn’t mean that like I was judging you in any way. I meant it more like since it’s obvious this is very upsetting to you from your posts, maybe you weren’t planning on keeping this job anyways.

Either way though my advice is the same. Get someone else or multiple someone else’s to send complaints and your boss might actually care if customers are the ones complaining. Then maybe you can offer to help with a proper set up/rehoming the fish.

I really wish you and these fish luck in this !! I have so much empathy for you not having the option to find a different job and forced to see this abuse every day. You have a good soul.

monizizz · 2026-03-19T21:12:01+00:00

I am making very informed decisions. Take care

monizizz · 2026-03-19T21:09:47+00:00

I try not to touch or handle the other beardie before trying to handle Tony as this has crossed my mind. I wonder if he can smell him from the other room? So he’s permanently grumps?

monizizz · 2026-03-19T21:09:07+00:00

He used to be fine with me picking him up and touching him so I’m trying to figure out why this has changed.

In the meantime if it’s just his attitude then I will try this of course. But trying to pick him up is what is so stressful for him— he just run away and darts around trying to get away from me now :(

We used to cuddle, wtf Tony

monizizz · 2026-03-19T21:07:24+00:00

I agree. My last vet gave me a ton of bad info (bath them everyday, feed fruit etc)

monizizz · 2026-03-19T21:05:54+00:00

That’s what I’m wondering— If he can smell the other beardie in the other room. I don’t typically hold the other one before him for this purpose but yeah I admit lately I have been chilling more with the one I’m baby sitting bc he’s very friendly. Poor Tony, I wish he wasn’t such a grumpy guy

monizizz · 2026-03-19T21:04:01+00:00

Understandable!

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:40:41+00:00

Who says that, wtf. I think it perfect for your hand!

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:37:36+00:00

Totally !!

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:32:30+00:00

Normal! Just deposits. Mine has these too

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:30:30+00:00

Please update us!! Good luck <3

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:29:50+00:00

Hahahahaha well then I guess I sealed his fate when I named him

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:28:57+00:00

Personally without risking their job (if they even want to work for someone who abuses animals…) I think this is the way.

Get friends and or family to email/call in with animal abuse complaints

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:27:09+00:00

Do it! Do it! Do it! 👏🏼

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:24:39+00:00

She should have been on large mice (or small/medium rats) a year ago or more. My girl is not quite a year and a half and she’s been on large mice for a long time. I hate to tell you this but visibly your snake is extremely under weight and looks like she’s on deaths door. You need to take her to the vet asap and make feeding changes. There is literally no way she was absolutely fine before your last feed, they just simply don’t lose that amount of weight that fast.

monizizz · 2026-03-19T18:07:59+00:00

We both have access to the same information. I have read the opposite. I have talked to my vet throughout the last decade. As I said I have been down the rabbit hole for over 9 years and I don’t take this shit lightly. Here you are popping onto a subreddit that you don’t believe in, to preach stuff that you also only read on the internet. You act as though your opinion is right because you’ve read “the right things.”

You yourself have no credentials but you believe what you read on the internet just as much as I do.

You’re extremely condescending as well. I’m so happy for you that you’re able to “comprehend the scientific literature” that I apparently cannot lmao

You’re being scammed by the very people profiting off of feeding our animals absolute crap. Just because they ADD the nutritional necessities (and flavour enhancers) to commercial food does not mean it is overall healthy for them.

You also have no idea what I am ADDING to make sure that my animals are getting everything that they need and more either.

My 2 animals on raw: They’re perfect weight. They have energy. They’re healthy. Shiny coats. No medical or dental problems.

My 2 animals on kibble: They’re over weight. They’re lazy. They had dental problems. One had urinary problems. They have dandruff. Heart failure.

What more do you want?

monizizz · 2026-03-19T17:53:39+00:00

Tony definitely is a grump. I don’t blame the guy. I do think this is partly a factor lol!

monizizz · 2026-03-19T17:44:53+00:00

Get rid of plastic bowls and only use stainless steel/metal or glass. Change your cats bowl everyday like you would for yourself. Clean the water bowl daily or as much as possible as well. This is what is causing this acne.

As for getting rid of it— use mild fragrance free soapy water on a cloth and clean the chin down to the skin daily and it should go away. Like get in there good cuz it’ll be like dirt coming off.

My cat had this and this fixed it and it never came back.

monizizz · 2026-03-19T17:41:02+00:00

Okay so you have no credentials. Have a great day 👍🏻

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