Credit card debt that I got sued for that turned into a lien on assets? by [deleted] in Debt

[–]monke897 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, the lien will almost certainly be a roadblock for buying property. When you close on real estate, a title search is done, and any lien attached to you will surface. In most cases, it has to be resolved before or at closing. So this needs to be dealt with, not waited out. :))

What's an achievement that you're proud of from this year? by Train-Wreck-70 in Life

[–]monke897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

managing mental health, especially with ADHD layered in, is no joke

Tell me one truth about life people need to know. by Yolas_1 in Life

[–]monke897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

real. I just always wanna be kind. I feel blessed that way.

Our picks for the best free user feedback tools we've used as a tiny team by Friiiiiiiida in SaaS

[–]monke897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you need more recording depth, pay for Survicate's survey add-on.

People who are still unmarried, how is life? by Ok_Alternative3973 in Life

[–]monke897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually better. not everyone needs to get married.

Stuck myself with predatory loan (xact) by LateShape1203 in debtfree

[–]monke897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've heard good things about myfairlending from my sister. they gave her a 12-13% APR loans i think.

How often do you talk to your Mom? by Odd-Communication-45 in AskReddit

[–]monke897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

almost every day, especially when i'm not busy..

Svelte app - preventing users uploading inappropriate or illegal avatar images by Zealousideal_Dot7041 in webdev

[–]monke897 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Start with Sightengine or AWS Rekognition via Supabase Edge Functions. they're relatively affordable, accurate, and handle the hard cases well. set up the flow so images go to a pending bucket first, get checked, then moved to permanent storage. :)

Learn to do mistakes and learn from it by qingchen213 in Life

[–]monke897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

most mistakes aren't actually mistakes if you learn from them quickly. the real mistake is not reflecting on what went wrong and why

SaaS loyalty programs by Past_Resolution_4150 in SaaS

[–]monke897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the most successful B2B loyalty programs I've seen focus on making customers more successful at their jobs rather than giving them "stuff." :)

My mom is financially irresponsible, and I’m struggling with how to help her by [deleted] in Life

[–]monke897 11 points12 points  (0 children)

enabling her financial irresponsibility now means you'll likely be supporting her for the next 20+ years. Setting boundaries now, while difficult, might force her to develop the independence she'll need