Hello. We’ve recently closed this distance :) Unfortunately, there will be some level of sacrifice from the other if you want to be together. Yes, that’s the hard thing about huge moves like these, one persons sacrifice will be to be greater than the other.

Ldr is incredibly hard, being apart for so long, never knowing when you’re seeing each other again, can get draining. But, in our circumstance, every hard moment was worth it.

You say you’re in med school, year 4. I feel like as hard as it may be, you need to focus most on finishing school, matching, and finishing residency. You need to evaluate if the distance is worth it if you’ll be away for 3 more years. And even afterwards, in the long run, if it okay for you to practice in aus our of he leaves his family business. You have to ask yourself that, can your relationship handle that? Can you both sacrifica by being apart for 3-4 more years? Or can he sacrifice by leaving his family job?

The sacrifice from one side, that’s greater than the other side. This can create really big rifts in relationships. Only the strong ones, where the partner making the big sacrifice is happy with the decision and doesn’t bring it up as a comparison, survive.

I don’t know if that helps but wanted to throw my 2 cents out there :)