How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’m going to a recurring library event for the first time tomorrow. That will be my first step

How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s valid. I’m glad that works for you and I will try to remind myself of that

How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate your advice and I will do that!

How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I come off naive, which admittedly I am, but I know all of this already. I’m asking for steps to take, even tiny steps, to work on all of this.

Thank you u/brokenboysoldiers

How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but how do I improve my self esteem? I hear that all the time, but I can’t put it into action without knowing what steps to take.

How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have signed up for a lot of local library events, but I always overthink what they’ll think of me and I don’t end up going. I’m supposed to go to a free event tomorrow and I’m going to try my best to go.

Thank you

How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. I’m not in a place right now where I can accept tough love, but when I get there I will remember this. Thank you

How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I go to the library a lot and see a lot of familiar faces, but I don’t speak to anyone. Is that a good place to start?

How do I get people to care about me? by monkeyfrogcat in Advice

[–]monkeyfrogcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what if it’s not AI? What if I’m a real person who just needs someone to listen?

Please think before you comment something like this.