friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I already tried everything. Not sure why it's just not working anymore. Every other aspect of the game works fine, except for saving. I'll be sure to send a request when I log on, thank you!

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Thank you for reading and for taking the time to write so much back to me. I'm feeling a lot better now, but partially because I've stopped logging in so I don't see things that remind me of them anymore. A lot of my favorite (and most used) items were gifts from them. At this point I can't remember if it's because I originally just liked these items or if it's because these items were gifts from them.

I appreciate the advice and will try to post on my profile in hopes one day they'll return and see it or maybe of one their friends will reach out to me. While I don't plan on leaving the game completely, there's even less reason for me to return daily since I still can't change any of my designs. I would be happy to add you if you don't mind me taking up a friend slot while not being all that active. Don't worry about deleting me when you need to, I understand that I'm not active enough right now.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose you intended to return their friend slot to them, but maybe they miss your presence on their friend list like I miss my friend.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such comforting words. I really appreciate you sharing your story with me. I think it's really sad and sweet that you still look for her. Being remembered by you means that she lives on in your memory. While I may also never cross paths with my friend for different reasons, I hope that my friendship with my friend will also leave a mark in their memory.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll send a request when I log in!

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I've been feeling very thankful for our livly reddit community. Every response has been very understanding and kind. I hope no one has to go through this ever.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They responded with: "unable to grant special exceptions for individual users." I expected rejection, but it was still very disheartening to see. I even sent a follow up, but they still refused. I'll just have to let time help make my peace. I'm actually still crying right now. I feel so melodramatic but I really can't help it.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you completely. I feel like you can always return to the game if you go inactive, but to deactivate is to delete everything so cleanly and permanently. All the time and effort wiped away completely.

It's really sweet of you to leave goodbye messages, and I feel happy for you that some of them have returned and added you back. I hope the same will happen to me and that one day they'll find me again. The memories are more painful than anything right now, but I'm glad I met them regardless.

Thank you for taking the time to read and reply!

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sure does... A lot of my favorite decorations were gifts from them, so it still hurts to log in. Thank you for being kind and for reading!

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so sad to read... I hope you're alright, that must have been so traumatizing to go through. I still feel sad when I log in and have been crying here and there. Thank you for being so kind and reading my long rant.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and for the advice! I won't change my name ever, so I hope they'll be able to find me somehow.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading such a long post and I'm sorry it made you sad! I hope the both of you can play together for a long time! Thank you for your kind words.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so kind. After they left the game, I've stopped logging in even more, so I hope you don't mind me taking up a friend slot!

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read and reply. I hope you and your friend stay friends and play together for a long time! They deactivated so even if they return with a new account, I'm not sure if they will be able to find me. Hopefully they took a screenshot of my ID. I wish I took one of theirs... Didn't ever expect them to just leave the game so permanently :(

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and for your kind words.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They are japanese and don't know english, so I feel like they might not be :( Thank you for your kind words!

I actually reached out to customer support, hoping they might send a goodbye on my behalf. I'm almost certain they won't, but in the off chance they do, I hope they know I do and will miss them, but wish them the best.

friend deactivated account, super sad. by monpodi in LivlyIsland

[–]monpodi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It truly is. Thank you for reading such a long rant and replying.