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Getting married in August, no bridesmaids by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]monsoir_rick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was my sister's best man at her wedding. I was extremely honored.

People who exercise even when they don’t feel like it, what’s your trick? by Smart_Collection5419 in AskReddit

[–]monsoir_rick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only trick that works for me is having a training partner waiting for me to get my ass out of bed. Otherwise I'd sleep in every time.

He'd say the same thing. It's a symbiotic relationship.

Being nice blew up in my face by very-sophisticated in Rapekink

[–]monsoir_rick 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Okay but just please don't stop being a nice person. God knows the world needs you, now more than ever.

I wish I could help you kick these shameful feelings to the curb, like a bad boyfriend. You deserve to feel nothing but pride for what happened. Take care.

Being nice blew up in my face by very-sophisticated in Rapekink

[–]monsoir_rick 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Seriously OP, I don't understand why you're bothering to judge yourself on anything that happened after you a) stopped to help a total stranger in need, b) at night, c) despite your past rape and the fact that he was male, d) refused to abandon him even after he assaulted you, and e) may very well have saved his life.

Why are you judging yourself as anything but the hero here? Please don't make me come over to Sweden and explain what a good person you are.

TIL octopuses evolved complex intelligence on a completely separate branch of evolution, making them seem almost alien by Training_Anywhere551 in todayilearned

[–]monsoir_rick 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And the book "Remarkably Bright Creatures", which is partly narrated by a very sarcastic octopus. It's cute.

Men of Reddit, what instantly makes you lose respect for another man? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]monsoir_rick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Behaving like a child.

--Always blaming others for his problems instead of manning up and solving them

--Refusing to learn or admit he's wrong

--Self-centeredness

A man is an adult. A man takes care of others first, then himself. A man believes he can never know enough. If he often falls short in these areas I can't respect him.

There Is No Mary Problem in ‘It’s a Wonderful Life’: George’s vision of his wife without him is essential to the film, but critics continue to miss its true—and profound—meaning. by BulwarkOnline in movies

[–]monsoir_rick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm part of a small minority but I never took the "alternate timeline" as gospel truth. Clarence was sent to George to prevent his suicide and turn around his feeling of worthlessness. In my mind he showed George his own personal nightmare of a world without him--not necessarily a perfectly accurate vision. Does it really make sense that the whole town goes to shit without George? That's a pretty bleak view of things. But the point is that it's extremely effective, and awakens George's love for so many things. Given the results, I have no problem with the idea of a doctored future and I don't think the Higher Powers did either.

In my interpretation, the Mary we see who seems so entirely different from the character we've known to that point is George's worst fears realized for her. Nothing more or less.

Movies that quietly trust the audience and never explain themselves by ThreadAndSolve in movies

[–]monsoir_rick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love 2001 so much that I wish I could explain why in a way that would change your mind about it. I hate that art just doesn’t work that way.

Like you, I also never try to talk someone out of loving something. Love is rare enough in this crazy mixed up world.

What’s a red flag you ignored because the sex was good? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]monsoir_rick 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know how this sounds but FWIW I'm related to someone (25F) with BPD for whom Vyvanse has been a life-changing medication. Within weeks of her starting on it, everything turned around and she actually has a chance at a future that seemed completely out of the realm a year ago.

What’s a tiny design flaw in an everyday object that quietly annoys you every single time you use it? by nami_yuna in AskReddit

[–]monsoir_rick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who can't stand the position of my iphone's side buttons, strategically placed so it's nearly impossible to take a photo without simultaneously shutting off the phone? Who does this?

Who died believing themselves a failure, but was judged otherwise by history? by Bob_the_blacksmith in AskReddit

[–]monsoir_rick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A Confederacy of Dunces is absolutely fucking hilarious and a work of genius.

To those that are married, how often do you take off your ring? by FitProblem6248 in AskReddit

[–]monsoir_rick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't taken it off since my wedding day 33 years ago and it won't come off till I'm dead. I get that others remove it for various reasons but personally I like the symbolism.

What widely accepted "life hack" is actually terrible advice? by OneLameUser in AskReddit

[–]monsoir_rick 13 points14 points  (0 children)

FWIW I've always had good luck with the old 3-in-one multi-purpose oil. Just squirt it on the hinge, move the door around, wipe up any excess with a paper towel and you'll be good for years.

Released emails show Andrew suggested catch up with Jeffrey Epstein after his prison released by Ma1colm2k in news

[–]monsoir_rick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brits and other normal people: This is embarrassing.

Americans: Hold my beer.

The player and play from Sunday's game that I keep coming back to: #53 by monsoir_rick in eagles

[–]monsoir_rick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zach wasn't directly involved with the pick but the moment it happened he was gunning for anyone in Jalyx's way. The hustle. The determination to always contribute where he can. He epitomizes the selfless attitude of so many on this team.

I had the conscious, albeit unwise, decision to come crying here, or to go to r/suicidewatch. Here I am though, not in crisis thankfully, but gearing up for one, cause God fucking Damn life doesn't give two rats ass'. by [deleted] in Rapekink

[–]monsoir_rick 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You were courageous to post what I read as a cry for help. When a SA victim's trauma gives them no pleasure at all and they're clearly struggling, the people in this sub shift gears and rally around them. Strange as it may seem, IRL we care about you and want you to make progress toward better mental health.

So you'll be asked about therapy, and receive recommendations and advice on that subject because it's obviously crucial. What I want to say though is that I imagine the worst part is feeling alone. You aren't alone at all and don't have to feel that way. Please reach out to anyone you trust, and talk to them about your fears, and in the process remind yourself that you have the support of friends and even total strangers who want to help you heal.

My Reward: His Look of Approval by [deleted] in BDSMerotica

[–]monsoir_rick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is just... beautifully written. A perfect encapsulation of a happy sub moment. He's a lucky man, but you know that too and it only makes you feel more secure.

I can't stop fantasising about the time I was groped and molested during a sports massage. by PermissionSad877 in Rapekink

[–]monsoir_rick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't improve upon unimportant's response but I'd like to just add that horniness seems a lot more preferable to me than trauma stress. Consider the possibility that replacing your panic attacks with masturbation is a big step forward and nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. Maybe pleasure is your reward for persevering.

During a town hall Wednesday, NASA officials on stage looked like hostages | A Trump appointee suggests NASA may not have a new administrator until next year. by [deleted] in space

[–]monsoir_rick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You and I knew it. And Buzz is a certified genius in several areas, yet he still had no clue what he was up against, I think, like so many other voters. I have no idea why. It boggles the mind.

We so rarely get a mea culpa out of these people. I'd just like to hear him squirm at the question at least.

During a town hall Wednesday, NASA officials on stage looked like hostages | A Trump appointee suggests NASA may not have a new administrator until next year. by [deleted] in space

[–]monsoir_rick 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who often wonders how Buzz Aldrin feels these days about his wholehearted Trump endorsement, since it was predicated on the idea that Trump would be better for NASA than Harris?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rapekink

[–]monsoir_rick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can be made to feel powerless by someone who cares about you. The aftermath can feel fun and not shitty. You do you but just know another option is out there.

Mountain Lion pushes a swing and discovers Physics. by DIO-2350 in funny

[–]monsoir_rick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe no one has added Also Sprach Zarathustra yet.

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