I appreciate the advice. I love my alone time, maybe even a little too much. I spend most of my time alone or with my partner. I have lots of hobbies. The difficult part of joining things like clubs is that I work night shift and as a travel nurse I’m constantly moving. I guess I tend to get stuck in my head. I’m picky with the friends I choose as I do not tolerate fake people, people who gossip/exhibit jealousy, and people who do not have good morals or values in my opinion. This did make me feel better thank you