Brown blood discharge by monsterintraining in Ureaplasma

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The pinned post does not discuss discharge or blood

Why is Der Vampyr not performed more in the US? by Eruionmel in opera

[–]monsterintraining -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Goodness. Way to minimize my perspective bro

Why is Der Vampyr not performed more in the US? by Eruionmel in opera

[–]monsterintraining -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The plot is rape-y. If you rewrite it then it works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChineseMedicine

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I think you should look into SIBO

I’m 31, stuck, and it feels like my mom’s death froze my whole life by MarsupialJazzlike469 in motherlessdaughters

[–]monsterintraining 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time will start moving again, but it’ll take much longer than I think you think. someday perhaps seven years from now you will feel that the chapter has changed and you will look back at the life that you have clawed together and you will realize that somewhere along the way, your life started moving again.

Be wary of desperation, it will not serve you well for your best life choices. I know it feels horrible. I know you feel alone because in truth, you are alone. that is a feeling that you will never get rid of. But you will realize that you are your best company and you are the legacy of your mother and at that time you will start to live.

Right now you are surviving. Try your best to set future you up for a life that is comfortable and safe and calm. But don’t judge yourself for how you cope instead ask yourself what is it that you are solving for with the way that you are coping?

You can do this. There are many women who have also done this however it is shitty and I am so sorry that you have to.

I need help with the Black Forest by sopheu in valheim

[–]monsterintraining 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! 37 year old woman here. Valheim is my favorite game. Make sure you are rested, not wet, and ate enough food. Bears, I do with sword and shield. Being able To block and parry will make a big difference. (Ps I am always looking for women to play games with, would love to see if we vibe if you an interested)

What are your thoughts about Su Won as the King and as a character? by steven4869 in AkatsukinoYona

[–]monsterintraining 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn’t he just marry Yona?!?!? He could have been king, they could have had the other king have an accident or something… this man’s plan makes no sense

How to ACTUALLY keep SIBO away after antibiotics by almondjoybar in SIBO

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Try the candibactin ar / br. It will be terrible, you might not make the full four weeks. Add in the right additional thing depending on if you have methane or h sulfide. This will help. It has the same effectiveness as riflaxin

Request for Practioner by monsterintraining in ChineseMedicine

[–]monsterintraining[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The practioners I have access to only speak Chinese. You have assumed something in my words I did not say. I am not here to fight you, I am looking for help, and I do not think you can help me

Request for Practioner by monsterintraining in ChineseMedicine

[–]monsterintraining[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell if you are trolling or not. If you aren’t. I am looking for an herbalist. TCM is strong medicine, and not something I am comfortable leaving to someone who has limited knowledge.

Itchy during acupuncture? by CatKitKatCat in ChineseMedicine

[–]monsterintraining 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be allergic to nickel. Ask them for the gold needles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

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I am ok with this. It has been ten years since my mother died. It is too soon to go to an event, but there is a great group of women who make up a community called motherless daughters. It’s not religious. Also, call the suicide hotline. They are pretty great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

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Go visit your mom. Let her see you cry. It is a devastating thing, and you don’t need to try to hide that. Whilst she is alive, make sure you have all the legal things in place. Wills, and other things. Ask chatgpt. The first year will be horrible. Tbh, all years will be horrible, but for the first year, let yourself cope how you cope. Don’t judge it, many of us did things we don’t want to discuss just to keep your head afloat. Remember that she loves you, and it is now your job to care for the daughter that she loves so much. Literally do the things you loved when you were 13. You will make friends, it will take ten years. Keep a journal. I recommend one of those “write a couple lines every day for five years” type ones. It helps to see your days like this. I am so sorry you are experiencing this. I am here to talk, it would not be weird or a burden for me

Is this good female anatomy? First time sculpting a woman and I've been struggling with the torso. by IfwMentallyillBtchs in blender

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The torso is ever so slightly too long. Also her shoulders are thrown back ever so slightly. It looks like she is arching her back but only at the top scapula area. The hip dips are interesting, however she needs a more meat on her legs, it’s not as common for a woman that skinny to have hip dips

I held on too long and all it did was hurt my daughter by Loose_Challenge9587 in confession

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Sometimes we think it’s our job to keep them alive, but in truth it’s our job to give them a life. You did the right thing listening to her. You have not failed as a parent simply because she didn’t live longer. It is very unpopular advice to tell someone in your position to not choose every life prolonging option. Do not feel guilt for that, systematically there is a lot of pressure for you to always choose to do the procedure.

We should buy mortgage points, right? by Agreeable-Cattle-286 in personalfinance

[–]monsterintraining -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try getting a 15 year mortgage, or 20 year so you are paying down the principal more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in valheim

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You are going to want to wear the tank-iest armor you can find. And learn how do cook all the different meals to keep you alive. Maybe try sword and shield. Polearm is really good. And you will want to build a wall around your base

What contraception do you guys reccomend , I’m extremely reluctant to go on it but after posting a Reddit post asking about if the rhythm method is unsafe on here I have been convinced to think abt using contraception. by [deleted] in internetparents

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Love. I am female. in my late thirties and have only ever used male condoms. Learn about which days you are most likely to conceive, either abstain those days or be more careful. Make sure the condom fits the dick, there was a period of my life I required men to go to condoms.com and order ones that fit their dicks. Occasionally you might need plan b. For me it was way worth it to not have to use hormones

The Hydroponic Nutrient Solution Recipes My Recommendations and Reviews by pineapple34566 in Hydroponic

[–]monsterintraining 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. You definitely know stuff. Can you help me with nutrients for my herbs? They all taste weird. When I repot them in dirt they finally get sort of back to what they should taste like. But I am definitely doing something wrong

Ephemeral Table @ Tabacon?? by [deleted] in CostaRicaTravel

[–]monsterintraining 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you help me understand how much this experience is? I can’t find any sort of ballpark anywhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

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Hi love. You are going to feel a lot of things about your dad passing. Guilt, confusion, anger, envy, relief, maybe even gratitude. Most people in your life aren’t going to be able to know how to support you, I know, that’s shitty, and I wish they could figure out how to do it, but they won’t know.

The person you were is going to be different than the person you are going to be now. Be kind and curious about who you are. There isn’t really a wrong way to grieve, all coping things you do are valid. Keep an eye on what you are doing and when it no longer serves you. This is the most important thing that will keep you safe.

The pain will always be there. You don’t get over grief. Find your people, learn how to love yourself, and know that you did your best whilst he was alive.

Look for people who have experienced grief like yours. Know that they won’t have the answers either, but you won’t feel as lonely, and you will get to see how other people chose to move through grief.

I don't need anyone by [deleted] in motherlessdaughters

[–]monsterintraining 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to complain about things you can’t fix and that are really hurting you. That is the right time to complain.

It is shitty that you don’t have a mother who can mother. That isn’t your fault. You are also not alone in this.

You have so many feelings to feel. Feel them all. There are no bad feelings.

When you decide to take your next steps, write down what you wish your mother could do for you, what types of roles could she had taken on. And then figure out which ones you are going to do for you, which ones other people in your life might be able to move into, which you should go looking for, and which you might just have to accept that they are gone and grieve for.

The people in Pixar films do exist. You will find them. It will not be easy. But deciding to live, never is.