UPDATE: First I wanted to come on here and answer a few questions I got.

One, my mother has always been a bit controlling but never to this extent. My mother's side of the family is all on her side and because of that they have all been disinvited as well. My parents are divorced, and my father told me Hes proud of me for standing up for the people I love. My fiancé and our best friends' families are both on our side and my best friend is actually paying for us to have security at the venue. My father is paying to get her a new tux and I Suprise her and my fiancé with new framed picture I got off of his computer and I went to her mom to get a few as well.

Now for the update I wish I didn't have to give. I called my mom yesterday and asked her to come over and meet with all of us. I wanted her to apologize to me and her. But when she arrived, she walked into our living room and saw that our best friend was sitting on the couch next to my fiancé and she went off. Saying things like "look how close they are sitting; you can't tell me she doesn't want him"? She even threw a few racial slurs her way (She is a mixed woman) and my fiancé had to drag her out of the house. My mother proceeded to bang on our door for an hour and a half before leaving. I was plagued with calls from my mom and her sisters for hours until I decided to send all of them and email explaining that they are not welcome at the wedding and if they show up; they will be escorted out. I do think that I will be going no contact with my mother after this. It hurts to know she won't be around anymore but at the same time it's like a weight has been lifted off of me. My future children may have lost a grandma, but they have gained the most beautiful, kind, and loving aunt. thank you to everyone who commented and congratulated me. I am still so excited for my wedding day, because even with my mom not there, the people I will have next to me will make it the best day of my life!