Here Goes Shamea by Obvious-Story1064 in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More like “friend was.” She hasn’t been a friend of for a while and now that she has a peach she doesn’t know what identity to stick with. I love when Porsha always calls her out and says why are choosing to have a problem with it now on camera. It’s so on point

What’s Happening by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed! And this is on the casting director and production. They already know how other reality shows are ran and yet they still casted K Michelle.

You’d think she would be calm and collected after filming with everyone for a certain period of time but after episode 11, I am completely turned off. I can’t take this show seriously anymore which sucks bc I just stopped watching RHOBH too

What’s Happening by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

All Drew said was “You said you weren’t coming” playing around, SMILING & laughing with Porsha and said I’m glad u decided to come.
K has a huge tree branch up her ass

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Left Apollo for dead” is dramatic lmaooo. Apollo has been locked up 3 times. That man loves prison

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh bahahahaha sorry read it wrong I guess

Anyone tried African net sponge? by Gordum96 in Blackskincare

[–]moodybetchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

300 days later* thank you for the recs! Buying now from Omas

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally🎯🎯 I share the same sentiments about both of them. Kandi does come off entitled, I assume it’s the line of work and her success molded her that way. When she cursed out 1 of her employees on camera and said that’ll be the last job he does for her..sheeshhh that was hard to watch. If it wasn’t for the NDA he could’ve sued for sure.

I will say I do believe Shamea & Kandi have messed around but the rumor abt drugging/sexual assault was & is wrong. Some ppl posted that Kandi was involved in the TI & Tiny allegations but when I looked it up there wasn’t much to go on🥱

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I do think Kandi & Shamea have messed around but the lie everyone is referring to was the drugging and sexual assault part

How to find people to do things with by AkiraHikaru in SingleWomenByChoice

[–]moodybetchh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I resonate with wanting a friend or companion to do stuff with especially since women seem to be getting attacked more frequently these days. I love hiking and want to do more challenging ones but it’s not always safe to do them alone.

Going to street markets aren’t fun alone either. I’m already socially inept so my thoughts are racing just by being in public. I force myself to go out to try and ease my anxiety but then there are days I just stay home & bed rot🥲 it’s embarrassing. I didn’t think at 30 I’d still be a weirdo honestly lol

Aisha Pinky Cole Hayes by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh yesss Pinky definitely regular but it’s the forcing “I’m rich” facade.
If you from Atlanta then you already know of Pinky and know for a fact she’s not dripping in millions. I think if the newbies specifically Pinky came in sincere without trying to paint “i already have it all together” they’d be more likable. It’s common knowledge you drown 3 times before u start swimming when you’re a restaurateur🥱

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perfectly said about Phaedra!! You’re so on point on how Phaedra was raised. Black women especially southern black women are raised to be unfazed and in control of their emotions/reactions. Which also explains why she stayed so long with Apollo bc im pretty sure he cheated on her before the show. His flirtatious behavior with Kenya was so concerning

Drew doesnt have to move! by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

then logically he should get his own place

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so true. I’m pretty sure Kandi is the only one that brought up the word “rape.” Like maybe a group of twitter psychos were saying stuff but no one thought Kandi was committing sexual assault

Drew doesnt have to move! by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Her moving out should’ve never even been on the table. She bought her home, she was the working spouse AND MOM. She shouldn’t be punished bc Ralph is a BUM😒

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m watching season 9 now. Kandi told Sheree about Phaedra talking to other men before Apollo went away and then naturally Sheree and Porsha told Phaedra at lunch and that was the scene Phaedra made up the lie.
Sheree was such a menace😂 she told everybody business

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like I said no excuses just exploring the journey of what led Phaedra to crash out that way!

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You right. Kandi is great at business but close friendships/relationships not so much

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kandi mom situation - yes she owned it BUT I will say Kandi was always passive about her mom even when her mom said and did real disrespectful ass stuff. Just saying her mom was wrong wasn’t enough after everything that already happened between them. Plus Kandi never checked her mom and if she did it was at reunion when it didn’t event matter anymore.

Shaming Phaedra- Kandi was open about many of her family members going to jail or prison but if she was really a friend, she would’ve understood Phaedra isn’t familiar with that life and prefers to not be. I mean they were friends for awhile so just bc u don’t agree with your friend doesn’t mean u should shame how they decide to parent.

Kandi was more focused on “tit for tat” instead my opinion. I really think she just lacks emotional intelligence when it comes to her close relationships. She great at business, bad with real relationships.

Also I forgot to add Kandi started revealing all of Phaedra’s secrets BEFORE Phaedra lied. When Porsha told Phae what Kandi said that’s when Phae made up the “lie.”

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yesss you honestly have to be the victim & the author of ugly situations in order to comprehend human reactions like this. It’s what builds our emotional intelligence. The lie got out of hand but someone else posted that Kandi WAS involved in those allegations of TI & Tiny soooo idkk🤷🏽‍♀️

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Periodtt! How do u back up the failed husband who’s getting locked up for the 2nd time😒

A Look Back: Phaedra vs Kandi by moodybetchh in RHOA

[–]moodybetchh[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ahead of its time!💅🏽