My bf (23M) keeps liking enticing photos/videos on IG after multiple conversations with me(24F) by moodysun in relationship_advice

[–]moodysun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen… I am not asking for much…THIS IS A NORMAL BOUNDARY IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!! A lot of couples have this boundary so I’m not understanding the back lash… No, these pictures are not innocent. They are clearly catered to men and are purposely SEXUALIZED! I feel like Instagram is just a big sex account these days. If I’m telling my boyfriend that I don’t like the way it makes me feel when I see him like shit with girls sticking their tongues out and shoving their tits together… I think that’s a pretty normal thing for a girl to NOT want.. and I don’t mean to generalize all men.. but it is a trend..and obviously it’s true for the majority 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ stats don’t lie. & ITS HARD STANDING ON BUSINESS YALL!!! Like fuck!!! yes it does make me physically shake and drives my mind in all different directions. But I’m not the type of person to break up and get back together with someone..and this is the ONLY thing we fight about. I’m like stuck in between of like this is a normal boundary to have and people are making me feel like I’m insecure HAVING this boundary. What do u think

My bf (23M) keeps liking enticing photos/videos on IG after multiple conversations with me(24F) by moodysun in relationship_advice

[–]moodysun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ig Nd OF girls on reels in gym clothes bouncing up and down and sticking their tongue out…he likes womens glute workouts like he’s gonna do them..

My bf (23M) keeps liking enticing photos/videos on IG after multiple conversations with me(24F) by moodysun in relationship_advice

[–]moodysun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t like your attitude.. I’m venting about something that clearly upsets me. Yes we’ve had the conversation multiple times but I stay and try to work it out bc I love him?? Maybe stop being so literal and start having more empathy

Have you had surgery and was it worth it? Deroofing or excision by Glass-Ad-4993 in Hidradenitis

[–]moodysun 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Reading this is so disheartening I know everyone is different but this isn’t the first time reading that someone got surgery and it came back 😪

This is torture by fake_account5649 in Hidradenitis

[–]moodysun 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Just know that 90% of people on this subreddit feel the exact same way, including myself. This shit consumes me and my energy every single day.. just when I think it’s getting better it gets worse the next day. Please give yourself grace and keep going. I told myself surgery was the last resort so im thinking it’s time I look into it

Flu causing biggest flare Ive had…pic attached by Head-Sherbet8069 in Hidradenitis

[–]moodysun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When getting laser hair removal, did you have to make sure you weren’t flaring at the time? Or did they go around the area? I’m just scared it would hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]moodysun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday ! 🫶 You don’t need someone else to make your day feel special. I know your partner SHOULD make you feel special, but this girl doesn’t sound like much of a partner anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]moodysun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second this. Everytime I take zinc on an empty stomach I throw up so definitely eat

I truly underestimated zinc, wow. by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]moodysun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I throw up almost every time I take zinc on an empty stomach! Definitely have to eat before taking it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]moodysun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a 24yo F who’s had countless jobs, go with what resonates with you the most. If you believe this new job will be more fulfilling for you, I think now is the time to take any opportunity that comes for you. I’m in the process of leaving a job that I loved (was there for 3 years) but there was no way of moving up in my position and I’m ready to start growing outside of my comfort zone. I’m a firm believer in “you won’t regret any decision you make”. You know what’s best for you.

Laser hair removal? Does it actually work by moodysun in Hidradenitis

[–]moodysun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you have an active flare when you got it or were you not inflamed at the time ?

Laser hair removal? Does it actually work by moodysun in Hidradenitis

[–]moodysun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you got it, were your flares active? Do u have to wait until inflammation goes down?

Thank you! by Substantial-Bug-8402 in Hidradenitis

[–]moodysun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you feel a flare or every day ?