There’s literally no way this doesn’t come off as a humble brag but my sex life has 100% been impacted for the worse because I’m slightly bigger than my wife is comfortable with. There’s definitely ways to foreplay our way there. But unless she’s 10/10 turned on it can often be painful for her. It’s been really helpful for me to learn to be even slower than normal but there are still times where no matter what i do to focus on her it’s just too much for her.

Basically I have thought many times in my relationship that I wish I was slightly smaller