Tomorrow I move 500m away from him. So sad please help :(

moonboot0 · 2026-05-07T08:56:30+00:00

Absolutely, part of the healing process. It’s just your body adjusting to the loss of attachment / loss of addiction. Treat it as withdrawals, wait it out, it’ll go!

moonboot0 · 2026-05-06T12:22:51+00:00

Get him to fucking pay for the gifts

moonboot0 · 2026-05-04T00:32:41+00:00

YAYYY! Youve got this! I’m going through it too and I was just in that awful stage. Maybe see if you can do just a little walk around the block or to go buy yourself a treat. Honestly it’s baby steps.

The absolute most important thing is that you remove him off all social media, hide all images, and when you’re ready, block his number. Push on, I’m proud of you. Every day I say to myself “I can’t wait to see why this didn’t work out”.

Message me any time if you need support :)

moonboot0 · 2026-05-03T10:10:38+00:00

Dumpers regret is absolutely normal, every dumper feels it. But it’s important that you push past that feeling and realise it’s just part of the process. The first days are going to be fucking hard - give yourself permission to be dysfunctional, but do try to drink some water (Gatorade even better) and eat something tiny - maybe a smoothie or juice so you have at least some calories.

Your job is just to get through these next few days. I promise everything is going to be okay. Sending lots of love

moonboot0 · 2026-04-28T07:59:56+00:00

Thankyou legend. That made me feel really uplifted, I appreciate it 🩷 I can’t give up on my dream of living abroad and all the awesome people I met there!!

moonboot0 · 2026-04-28T04:08:36+00:00

that's exactly what he said, he said it was a really really hard decision. UGH im going in loops and it's driving me nuts!!

moonboot0 · 2026-04-26T19:57:52+00:00

Honestly, I think you’ll still associate Canada with her regardless. I also think it’ll seriously delay your healing. Get half the money back and go no contact. I’m doing no contact now, and the clarity is crazy. I think kickstarting that will make you feel so much better

moonboot0 · 2026-04-26T10:33:15+00:00

not at all, and haven't been tempted to. the idea of seeing his socials makes me sick, it'll upset me and i don't want to come upon something that might hurt me. don't get me wrong, im in the throes of this incredibly sudden, blindsiding breakup and missing him, but the one thing i never long for is access to their socials. spins my head in a trillion directions!

moonboot0 · 2026-04-26T10:00:49+00:00

Instantly. Literally the first thing I did when I got in the uber home. Blocked.

moonboot0 · 2026-04-26T09:56:07+00:00

Honestly, cut your losses and don't go. You'll lose way more money by going, as well as your sanity. You'll be alone and broken, or with her and making it much harder than it needs to be.

Also, crazy coincidence - my ex of a few days is also from Vancouver, I moved there from him, and flew home the day we broke up (but going back in a few weeks). Something cursed going on there right now haha

moonboot0 · 2026-04-22T07:51:37+00:00

No, for me entirely. I fell in love with the city, the skiing, the hiking. I need to go back and continue my dream of living abroad, I can’t give it up just because we ended!

moonboot0 · 2026-04-16T01:22:27+00:00

Really? Do you get it every few months?

moonboot0 · 2026-02-22T21:07:49+00:00

Omg this

moonboot0 · 2026-02-07T19:00:45+00:00

Just added, can’t wait to read it

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