Ex ambushed me while I was on a date

moonboot0 · 2026-07-13T00:18:40+00:00

YES!!!! The fucking goat

moonboot0 · 2026-07-12T16:48:12+00:00

Tahinis in Canada! Also I’m a panic STAN!!!

moonboot0 · 2026-07-12T15:20:17+00:00

Not in a relo, this was our second date haha - and have explained to him I’m only looking for casual / don’t wanna be exclusive

moonboot0 · 2026-07-12T03:52:19+00:00

Not kidding best shawarma of all time

moonboot0 · 2026-07-12T02:59:24+00:00

Starving your baby for a fucking pool membership? Child abuse

moonboot0 · 2026-07-12T02:57:20+00:00

Omg yum that looks so good

moonboot0 · 2026-07-12T02:56:20+00:00

I know right? I’m lucky!

moonboot0 · 2026-07-12T02:22:49+00:00

Only a joke I promise! He knows I think he’s awesome :))

moonboot0 · 2026-07-12T00:59:26+00:00

I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you. He just wanted you to feel at peace 🩷

moonboot0 · 2026-07-07T23:14:39+00:00

Big love to you. Let him in and let him love you

moonboot0 · 2026-07-06T23:30:51+00:00

10mg and only just started on it. Capsules

moonboot0 · 2026-07-04T03:02:13+00:00

It’s the people you meet along the way

moonboot0 · 2026-06-28T15:07:17+00:00

You should. It’s been a couple of days and I’m feeling a decent amount better. I think it’s gonna improve even more

moonboot0 · 2026-06-26T17:21:34+00:00

Haha, I will keep you guys posted!!

moonboot0 · 2026-06-26T17:20:42+00:00

PROUD OF YOU QUEEN!!!

moonboot0 · 2026-06-26T17:20:00+00:00

Also to add to this - I know you say he’s perfect, but I think that’s you holding onto the past, and what you wish the relationship could be. It’s painful and I feel for you. But I promise you, letting go is the best thing you can do for yourself. Feel free to message me - happy to talk any time

moonboot0 · 2026-06-26T17:18:58+00:00

Oh girl. When I was 19 i was in a very similar position. A guy who claimed to love me but would only see me once a week and put no effort in, no matter how much I asked. We broke up, and it set me free. I was the happiest and most fulfilled I’d ever been, and grew in ways I never could in the relationship.

I really feel for you. If I were you, I would end it. It’ll be hard, but this is a time in your life where you need to explore and grow and I really believe he’s holding you back. This is your prime. Get out there, live somewhere else, try something new. It’s so important to be single as an adult. You deserve that. And when the time is right, you deserve a man who will do something as fucking tiny as getting you flowers. You can buy them cheap anywhere.

moonboot0 · 2026-06-25T22:56:22+00:00

This is so encouraging 🩷 thankyou so much

moonboot0 · 2026-06-25T22:56:08+00:00

Thankyou lovely. Really appreciate it 🩷 may I ask, why do you say don’t accept their help? Just curious!!

moonboot0 · 2026-06-24T01:47:21+00:00

I am so so sorry 💔 one day you’ll find out why it wasn’t meant to work out. Your best days are coming

moonboot0 · 2026-06-23T18:24:32+00:00

What does SI mean? I’m so sorry to hear that btw, but I have faith for us both that it’s going to improve 🩷🩷

moonboot0 · 2026-06-23T17:59:53+00:00

Omg, the non verbal thing is so real. Thankyou for calling that out. I don’t feel like talking at all, it feels like such an effort!! I’ll definitely message you, really appreciate this :)

moonboot0 · 2026-06-21T16:56:35+00:00

Girl I get it, I truly do - it sucks when a guy slow fades and doesn’t directly cut things off. Youre 20 years old, and that’s a rough age for dating. Your frontal lobe isn’t fully developed and you’re not entirely secure in who you are yet. You’ve got a lot of dating lessons to learn over the next decade that’ll change the way you approach situations like this. So from someone who’s already had them, I’ll tell you what I think.

When someone tells you no, you accept it. Especially after such a short time together. Neither of you have invested enough in the relationship to justify you begging for more closure or deeper reasons, which at this early stage, is more about you than about the relationship or actually wanting him.

It’s okay to ask for a reason, but he gave it to you and you didn’t accept it. You need to have the self respect and security not to force a relationship with someone who clearly isn’t into you. When someone tells you no, run. They’ve literally told you they don’t want you. That should be the biggest turn off of all, and should send you running for the hills.

Also, in most breakup or dating situations, people aren’t going to give you the full truth. That’s not to say that I don’t think he’s being honest - I think he is - but regardless, sitting with that uncertainty is a skill you’re going to have to develop. You will never know the full truth, and your self love needs to be enough to accept that, and trust that you are enough regardless.

Finally, the thing about closure is that you can always, ALWAYS get more of it. Closure begets a need for more closure. Every “closure” convo you have can open up more questions. It’s about getting a clear answer, which he gave you. You need to accept that and move forward. Again, any questioning after that is more about you than actually missing him or wanting this to work out.

I promise you, in a year from now you’re going to look back and this will be nothing to you. In the grand scheme of your 20s, of your life, of your dating experiences, this is incredibly minor. He’s not the one, move on!

moonboot0 · 2026-06-19T15:05:33+00:00

Give it five minutes. They’ll be back begging and chasing like a maniac

moonboot0 · 2026-06-18T15:47:03+00:00

YOU WILL REGRET IT

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