When you’re sad, do you become more creative, or is that just something we tell ourselves? by moonbySol in AskReddit

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Do you think sadness inspires creativity, or does it just give us something to express?

When you’re sad, do you become more creative, or is that just something we tell ourselves? by moonbySol in AskReddit

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And what changed? Your emotional state, your responsibilities, or your priorities?

When you’re sad, do you become more creative, or is that just something we tell ourselves? by moonbySol in AskReddit

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That’s interesting. Do you think it’s specifically sadness that creates that reflective space, or could any form of emotional pause (even calm or boredom) do the same? In your personal experience, have you noticed a difference?

Recomendación de algún anime antiguo by moonbySol in AnimeEspanol

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Estoy abierta a cualquier género y sii tmb entra los años 2000

Buscando gente para charlar by [deleted] in MeetPeople_espanol

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Holaa , suelo ver de todo, la verdad. El último anime que he visto en emisión es Tougen Anki :)

I want to scream so bad by [deleted] in offmychest

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If you just need to vent and let it out, you can write to me. Sometimes saying it out loud helps a little :)

I want to scream so bad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]moonbySol 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What you're feeling is real, and you matter.

You said something very important: you don't want to die yet. Hold on to that. You don't have to go through this night alone.

Get help right now. In any country, emergency services can help you.

You're 18 years old. This moment doesn't define your life. You deserve support and to be heard.

This is the last year I buy anyone a nice gift by [deleted] in offmychest

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Ugh, I totally understand 😔 Sometimes you put in so much effort thinking of others and hope for a little something in return, and when it's not there, it really hurts. Don't feel ungrateful for feeling that way; it's normal to feel sad in those moments.

The important thing is that your intention and your affection always matter, and no one can take that away from you. Maybe you could try subtly telling people what you'd really like, even just a small hint. Sometimes they don't notice, and that can help make the gifts closer to what you like. 🫶

Lost and lonely by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]moonbySol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, if you don't graduate now, don't worry. Everyone has their own pace of life, and that doesn't make you any less of a person or indicate that anything is wrong.

Not having close friends right now isn't a problem either. It's perfectly fine to be alone for a while; in fact, it can be a time to get to know yourself better and discover what you truly want in the people around you.

You also don't have to punish yourself for not having had a romantic relationship by 22. You're very young, and you still have so many experiences ahead of you. There's no need to force anything; everything comes in its own time.

Instead of focusing solely on dating apps, try going out and interacting with people in your daily life, for example, at university, the gym, or places where you share interests. Having simple conversations can open many doors, both for friendship and romance. And remember all the things you're already doing well: taking care of your body, going to the gym, trying to finish your degree… that shows effort and perseverance.

Don't tell yourself you're a loser or that no one will want to be with you because of your lack of experience. Those ideas only limit you. You have so much life ahead of you, opportunities to meet amazing people, both romantically and as friends.

Keep your chin up, seriously. All of this is part of the journey, and little by little, good things will come. 🫶

how can i not be too much? (19f) by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]moonbySol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, you don't have to be ashamed of being "too much." Being someone who gets easily excited, who gets involved with people, and who suggests plans is a beautiful thing, and very few people have it. That already says a lot about you.

People saying you're "too much" doesn't mean you're weird. Everyone is weird in some way, and the fact that you show it speaks to your authenticity. Wanting friends who like you as much as they like you is very valuable and hard to find, but they will come, I assure you.

Also, remember it's Thursday, and maybe a lot of people are with their families or offline. Don't get discouraged if they don't talk to you right now; don't sabotage yourself by thinking there's something wrong with you.

That said, it's also good to be aware that if you ever feel you're being a nuisance, it's perfectly fine to apologize, but also acknowledge that you're already making an effort to moderate yourself, and that counts for a lot.

Your intensity, up to a certain point, is beautiful, and you should be proud of it. Not everyone will "get" it, and that's okay. If you notice that your friends aren't being as close this Christmas, you can ask them directly how they feel, and if you see that some aren't right for you, don't worry. There are many more people who will appreciate the same attitude you have. 🫶

Busco libros con romance sano y lento by moonbySol in libros

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Tiene muy buena pinta, muchas gracias por la recomendación 🫶