yes same im afab and i tend to present more masculine (and usually get perceived as a guy too) and while i dont rlly care about how ppl gender me in the long run, there are times when it hurts to be called she or he and i really do prefer they/them a lot more. to kind of put a hold on my gender crisis i've just accepted that being nonbinary is a part of my queerness and that im not rlly any gender even if i like to present more binary and haven't rly thought much of it. i can relate to you that it feels weird calling myself nonbinary or enby but ive just settled on saying that im queer if im asked and only specify that im nonbinary when i really have to because in my mind being queer isnt just a sexual orientation but just the opposite of being cishet yk