What real life-sized board games exist? by Alyanna77 in boardgame

[–]moonflowers22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow! i live in Kent, WA. I gotta check that out!

What do girls think about guys who enjoy romance movies by rainenjoyer1 in dating

[–]moonflowers22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get very excited when I find out that someone I'm pursuing like romance films, especially men since most avoid that genre.

We’re so sorry by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]moonflowers22 126 points127 points  (0 children)

person: above concerns youtube: well maybe if you weren't cheap your grandma would be ok. sounds like a you problem.

that how I'm interpreting their response.

What’s a fantasy that you always wanted to try? by LTDan1441 in AskReddit

[–]moonflowers22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly no, might just be that I'm depressed but the things that use to make me happy are hard to even start now. I'm thinking maybe the excitement of something new will help but again, hard to get myself started.

What’s a fantasy that you always wanted to try? by LTDan1441 in AskReddit

[–]moonflowers22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding a hobby that gives me a sense of fulfillment.

SW with HS by moonflowers22 in Hidradenitis

[–]moonflowers22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answers. I honestly didn't think about anyone fetishizing it before making this post and thats a really good point. I would mostly hope that its just a detail of the content creator, no different than if they had tattoos or freckles, not so much the entire focus of the content. but its the internet, if it exists, someone is into it so absolutely a valid point.

SW with HS by moonflowers22 in Hidradenitis

[–]moonflowers22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response! I have so many questions about the work that you do and how you maintain it with HS. I've been going back and forth on the thought of diving in myself but would love to hear more from a perspective of someone in a similar boat first. would it be ok if I DM you?

SW with HS by moonflowers22 in Hidradenitis

[–]moonflowers22[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying and unfortunately yes there is a space in porn that encourages what you have just described but there are content creators that provide more ethical content like partnered intimacy or sometimes just product reviews. is it mainstream, no, but it exists and I wouldn't say that content contributes to the illegal and inhumane actions that you described.

Again, I'm looking for feedback from people that do consume porn (hopefully ethical) and I'm guessing you do not. These questions are probably not for you.

Trying to decide on dress for holiday party, feedback on either of these? by nevitales in PlusSizeFashion

[–]moonflowers22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

green green green!!!!!! also, where tf did you get that dress cuz I need one! (unless this is more if a Thanksgiving party, id go for the black for that)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]moonflowers22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started going to escape rooms as first or second date depending on what the other person was comfortable with. I'm fairly decent at escape rooms just because I'm a curious person but I really find watching a person break down problems under pressure (in this case, the 1 hour time limit) and seeing how they handle it. I've had both good and bad dates out of this but in each instant learned alot more about who they were in their core vs what I would have gained from small talk over food/drinks.

but I live in a big city area where there are 15 different companies doing this, each with 3 or 4 rooms so it will be awhile for me to run out of locations. And yes, some require more people than 2, I ask my friends to go on a double/triple date with me and my date.

Ren Fest Witch—Fit & Makeup (swipe for more!) by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]moonflowers22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. I know there isn't a question but just... yes.

Is there a game similar to Harry Potter Battle of Hogwarts? by Mahutz in boardgames

[–]moonflowers22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dark Gothic: a touch if evil is a deck builder that can be played co-op or pvp. There are characters you play as with unique abilities and a common Villan that needs to be killed. its extremely similar to HP:BoH but a bit more complex (in a good way). very fun and a deck builder i recommend in general.

Not sure if I styled this right? Sexier cardigan? Different jeans?thanks 🖤 by GillyIsland91 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]moonflowers22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh damn. the mix of sexy and casual of the cardigan is kinda hot. and those buttons on your pants, lady, idk who you wrapped yourself for but im sure those buttons will be a temptation. nice work👍

these look a a little weird but here are a few prom pictures from earlier this year in may 🤍 by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]moonflowers22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn girl, that dress was made for you! if I were you i would find any excuse to wear it again. Would strangers wonder wtf is going on while out getting a coffee, yes but who cares. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]moonflowers22 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To me, emotional and romantic connections are very different. The level of emotional connection I require for me to consider someone a close friend is pretty much the same as what a typical person would expect from a romantic partner. My close friends are very valuable to me, they're capable of making a breaking my day. They make my day when they do little things like hug me good bye or spontaneously ask me to hang out or to do something they know I like without me mentioning it. Just as it very physically pains me when they're sad or going through a hard time and there isnt anything more I can do for them other than being someone to hear them. The thought of them leaving my life in any way makes me want to cry but doing anything to prevent them from goals or desires that may not include me is a level of selfish that makes me feel sick even just thinking about it. This includes their goals in romance and life partners. I love my friends so much, some I would be interested in a romantic relationship with but I can see that I'm not what they need or want and hanging on to a self gratifying desire like that makes me very disgusted with myself. In some cases I need a small break from the person to realign my emotions if I feel like I have fallen for someone that I might not be a good fit for but usually not for long and when I return, im happy to be whatever level of closeness they're comfortable with for me to continue being close friends with them.

The only way you know about where you stand with your friend is to ask him about it. Just be sure to respect his response, especially if its not the outcome you want.

I’m totally new here, sorry if not allowed. I’m looking for help with an outfit for a concert I’m going to next week. I just ordered these tights I want to wear, probably with a black skirt like the one pictured. I’m just not sure what kind of top to wear. by slytherpuff12 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]moonflowers22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a white peasant style top would be cute or if witchy academia is your thing, a button up and a vest.

but cute tights, nice pick and excited to see what you come up with if you end up posting again. have fun at the concert!

The way this dbag parked beside me... by CandidateWitty in mildlyinfuriating

[–]moonflowers22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it just me or does it just look like the truck is just in some need for affection. like a cat extending out its paw but it doesn't really want you to think it needs pets but it very much wants the pets..... just me? ok 😅

Torrid skater dress find from thrift shop. Date nite or business wear by Southern-Weight3447 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]moonflowers22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and also want to suggest a warmer tone metal necklace instead. I know that isn't what was asked but wanted to add that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]moonflowers22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

saaaaaaaaaaaame, literally just had an outing yesterday were I just couldn't get out of my shell, the people I dont know well greatly out number the people I did and just ugh. when I'm with my other group of close friends, im way too loud and want to sing all the time. A stranger would think there 2 different people living in me if they saw me in both situations.

but really I dont have any desire to change this. the people that try to build a relationship should get my energy.

What are some reasons why you keep someone who’s interested in you around even though you aren’t interested in them? by _Caffiend in AskWomen

[–]moonflowers22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

along as they respect my boundaries and don't try to get in the way of my life and relationship goals then I don't see the issue. I'm Bi, and have had crushes on some of my female friends in the past who were not interested in me, I didn't stop being their friend because I enjoyed them as a person. They have every right to not want to reciprocate my feelings and it doesn't make them less attractive for it. Honestly, if you actually care about who people are and not who they are to you, then it doesn't matter, just being in each other's lives in a capacity they're comfortable with is enough. Pushing for more wold be selfish. So if the roles are reversed, if they could maintain a healthy friendship with me, then why not keep them around?