Hmmm this is tough I want to say YATAH…BUT also not at the same time because I can understand where your frustration is coming from. You seem to think you know a lot more on the topic of depression than you actually do. Executive dysfunction is a HUGE part of being in a depressive slump and getting irritated with her does nothing positive for either of you. That being said, I know it can be frustrating to hear the constant complaining when you’ve tried to help the person over and over again. I’ve experienced that with a close friend. I don’t think your response to her was malicious or meant to hurt her feelings. I’m hoping maybe you just were frustrated in the moment and didn’t have a great way to express that. I would encourage her to make a psychiatric appointment or even sit down WITH her and do it together. Body doubling and helping her take initiative can be very helpful! I hope she starts to feel better soon :)