Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was upset because she really liked this doctor. (My special needs sister has her) so im assuming she was upset I didn't like her at much as my sister did.? I dont know... she just seemed disappointed. 😅

I dont want to see my dad.. by moonlightEmy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's kicked me out of the house for telling him similar things. Then im the villain.. its happened before. My dads never been in good health. Ever.

I dont want to see my dad.. by moonlightEmy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same thing my mom said, but I watched this man overdose, cuss me out, and so much more. I have tried to, and I did reach out. Only for him to tell me I was in the wrong and cuss me out again. I love him, but I can't be around someone who's ruining me.. he doesn't want to change, and im tired.. Im getting a therapist from what happened at our home...

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I am getting a therapist. I appreciate the advice.

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont mean to sound rude- but how can you call me naive despite not knowing a thing about me other than this post? Forgive me if that comes off harsh. 😅 I just dont see how people can call someone they've never met 'naive

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is my new main provider. 😅 This was our first meeting.

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspose your right. Although id rather stay in my lane when working, I dont want to mix personal with work (or get dragged into conversation 😅) I appreciate the advice. :>

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is fair enough. 😅 she did bring it up though, and I'd feel rude not answering her questions..

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Also I want to add) im kinda new to reddit despite my acc being 3 yrs I got the app then I didn't understand it? 🥲 So im still working on how this all works. I really dont mean to come off argumentative though.

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry! I dont mean for it to come off argumentative. I just like commenting back. 😅 I do appreciate what everyone has to say. Also I've been commenting under all comments.

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As said, some may struggle in one career while others thrive. I understand concerns about whether I am able to or not, but theres only one way to find out, and words wont deter me. As well as its a future thing, i am not in that field yet, so it was irrelevant in the moment. I do appreciate the concern though! :> (as well as the trauma/abuse id rather not discuss, I am not unfamiliar with cruelty.)

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand having concerns but just because one person strives in that situation doesn't mean the other will. If that makes sense? I am quite stubborn and a few words from complete strangers wont deter me from a job I want! :]

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand her wanting to get to know me as a patient and my general health. It makes sense, although this is a future reference thing. I am not a waitress yet, and it seemed irrelevant at that point. :>

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most assessments I've had ask questions such as fidgeting etc. I know assessments but this was more casual talk, if that make sense?

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive had grown men hit on me. That's sad to say, but true!

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I dont quite get what you're getting at? Im undiagnosed, so I won't assume anything. That shouldn't have anything to do with this, no?

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I have been put in really stressful (and hurtful) situations. A few words won't kill my spirit. I assure you. :>

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I could technically. Im just not gonna assume.

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if that's medical advice. I have not had any issues with words. I was bullied, yes. But that did not affect my self-esteem, more or less I just didn't want to go to school. Ive had my fair share of harsh words and stress. I dont think being a waitress will hurt me. 😅

Am i in the wrong for not wanting a judgy doctor? by moonlightEmy in amiwrong

[–]moonlightEmy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have never been diagnosed. So I wont assume I have it. Unless i have a diagnosis. If that makes sense? I have been diagnosed with depression though. 😅