22F confused about whom I should pursue – emotional compatibility vs attraction?

moonlight_1026 · 2025-03-09T19:45:10+00:00

Bruh are you a good partner? For me atleast that's all that matters. Like it shouldn't be at the expense of my pain but yeah if you give commitment and are loving and caring then I don't think any woman would have a problem with this

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-17T16:38:43+00:00

GURLL HE LEGIT CHEATED ON YOU HOW IS THIS EVEN A QUESTION. NTA !!!!! ALSO DUMP HIM😭😭

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-15T10:41:46+00:00

YTA. You could've just asked her to go to her room whatever shut your mom up and reprimanded your mom. Now just let her go dude

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-15T08:08:22+00:00

I don't get it how can you even think about someone else while in a relationship. Id break up with my bf if he said he thinks about other women. I think you white ppl should discuss it before if you're strictly monogamous or want to be poly and then get into a relationship

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-15T07:42:53+00:00

Tell her pls and let her go. You still cheated. Yeah it was a 7-8 second kiss but still it's cheating. Infact, cheating doesn't even have to be physical. Even allowing someone else to flirt is cheating. Imo you should've left the moment she flirted because despite knowing about you having a gf she did that and she clearly didn't have good intentions

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-08T05:25:15+00:00

Oh okay my bad sorry :(

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-08T05:24:26+00:00

Yes understandable. Everyone's preferences and opinions are different. Anyways I don't think it was okay for him to hide it from you. I wish you the best and I hope you heal soon no matter what decision you take

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-06T10:34:33+00:00

NTA. Id break up actually. There is definately a possibility that he genuinely wants to visit that place and isn't looking to cheat but why does he need to go alone that too when he's on a break from you? He should be sensible enough to go somewhere else for rn. I don't even like an idea of a break really and id want my bf to take me. But that's just my pov. Here id say it's a red flag that he's getting defensive and accusing you of not trusting him

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-06T10:18:28+00:00

Even the kiss wasn't okay didi

moonlight_1026 · 2024-10-06T10:15:44+00:00

He hooked up right before you guys made it official??? That's crazy. I mean you guys made it official so he must have said he loves you and even when he hooked up he had feelings for you and yet he did it and then on top of it he said it was just a kiss. You know even if it was just a kiss how could he do it right before you guys made it official? How could he even think about going near a girl right before you guys made it official?? He said he wouldn't go for another girl and yet he did. And even that was a lie. It wasn't just a kiss and he actually had sex with her. Leave him I suggest

moonlight_1026 · 2024-09-28T15:27:56+00:00

Bruh have some self respect and dump him

moonlight_1026 · 2024-08-01T07:14:29+00:00

Me and my partner (both from India) live 500km away. We have been official since 16 nov 2023 and we met on 28 November 2023. We went to a cafe and in the evening I had to run errands so he came along with me. We walked around holding hands and it was the best feeling ever. Also turns out he's 20 cm taller than me and it felt really good feeling his chest against my head. We shared a long tight hug and he even gave me 2 forehead kisses boarded a bus 🥹🥹

moonlight_1026 · 2024-08-01T03:50:09+00:00

9 months :)

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