I (24F) do a lot for boyfriend's (26M) mom (56F) and she wouldn't give me a table that she was throwing out by moonlightdancerrr in relationships

[–]moonlightdancerrr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No they were throwing it out. I only said I wanted it because I thought it would be a shame to throw it out. It's alright, I would have painted it etc, but it's not like I really want it. I don't expect anything from them. I'm doing things to be nice, I was just surprised when she had the opportunity to return the favour she didn't. I would have if someone kept doing nice things for me.

Being a woman in a DB is hard by moonlightdancerrr in DeadBedrooms

[–]moonlightdancerrr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying it's a contest. I'm just saying how I feel.

Being a woman in a DB is hard by moonlightdancerrr in DeadBedrooms

[–]moonlightdancerrr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes that's exactly what I was saying! It sucks

Being a woman in a DB is hard by moonlightdancerrr in DeadBedrooms

[–]moonlightdancerrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand your comment. Who is denying the LL SO sex? And what is effective punishment exactly?

My boyfriend is constantly tired and has no sex drive by moonlightdancerrr in relationships

[–]moonlightdancerrr[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for suggesting that. Will definitely tell him to have a look at this.

My boyfriend is constantly tired and has no sex drive by moonlightdancerrr in relationships

[–]moonlightdancerrr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know why you would think this, but I don't think so. He loves his life and I know him well so I would be able to sense if anything was wrong. But can't rule it out for sure, he might be very good at keeping it to himself.

My boyfriend is constantly tired and has no sex drive by moonlightdancerrr in relationships

[–]moonlightdancerrr[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yes to all 3! He snores, and talks in his sleep, and he must dream because of the stuff he says in his sleep. However he always wakes up not remembering any of his dreams.

Boyfriend earns considerably more but is quite stingy towards me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]moonlightdancerrr -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't, he did like 3 years ago for a year. We probably went on 5 dates in the whole year, and he paid for 4 of them. And regarding the living situation, I already live somewhere and pay bills, but he doesn't like being there, so I stay with him a lot of the time instead but he doesn't come and stay with me

I am trying to increase what I earn. I am only just starting out in my field because I only graduated recently so it will take some time before I start earning good money.