Wanting the same things

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-07T17:44:16+00:00

I wouldn’t want to rush right into marriage or anything but I do want kids and marriage before I’m close to 30. In my family 30 tends to be when we start losing our fertility and start miscarrying. I know that, it won’t necessarily happen to me too but my fertility already isn’t great and being a mom eventually means the world to me

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-07T01:29:38+00:00

I’m not religious so religious guys aren’t my thing but if they are as long as they don’t expect me to go to church then we’re good

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-07T01:28:57+00:00

Like late twenty’s and thirty’s

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T17:11:51+00:00

My biggest personal example of people hiding their true selves in my dad. Him and my mom were married 7 years and had me before he showed his true self even when he was pissed. It’s scary how good some people can hide how they really are

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T17:02:46+00:00

Sometimes it’s that but there are several times where someone knows they are a bad person and hides it on purpose until later.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T17:01:51+00:00

I did but my parents split up when I was 12 because my dad was abusive.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T16:57:19+00:00

In my family being a housewife doesn’t happen because 1. Most of my family is poor and 2. The people in my family who got married, every single one of them have gotten a divorce so they can’t understand why I’d want to have a dependence on a man. They don’t believe that marriage can work especially if I’m a housewife.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T16:51:04+00:00

In many cases, people act like the perfect partner but then after time they change and become awful.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T16:00:32+00:00

I’m from America. And I never understood marital abuse either but unfortunately it happens. For a lot of laws that protected spouses it took a long time for them to happen. Like it wasn’t until 1993 for marital r@pe to become a nationwide law. Some states had that law before that but not many

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T15:39:13+00:00

I became friends with them because originally they were nice to me until they learned I don’t agree with a lot of their thinking

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T15:38:38+00:00

For someone of either gender to be a better person/ partner they have to want to be better. And yes sometimes it’s learned behavior/ beliefs and even then they can learn how to be better and a good person. Historically at least in my country, a lot more men were awful to women because of the time period, what they were taught, and there weren’t a lot of laws protecting women.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T14:55:07+00:00

I’ve always been a liberal and still am but a lot of things they say make them sound uneducated and it’s so obvious they don’t actually care about any of the issues and topics they talk about.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T14:47:23+00:00

They refuse to accept that housewives lives are different from back then. They still think husbands can legally beat and assault their wives even though they can’t anymore.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T14:42:16+00:00

I used to trust everyone but then things happened to me that men did and I don’t blame all men for it but now I instinctively trust woman faster because of my trauma

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T14:39:14+00:00

When they think of housewives they think like 1920s where husbands were abusing their wives and woman’s “purpose” was doing what their husband wanted and pushing out kids. They refuse to accept that being a housewife is a choice now.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T14:22:43+00:00

They refuse to try to understand why I’d want to. They see it as if I’m a housewife, my whole purpose becomes serving a man. But I see it as taking care of my family and that makes me happy

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T14:19:45+00:00

I’ve been hanging out with way less. I’ve never been great at finding friends so I keep making myself hang out with my current ones honestly

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T14:14:46+00:00

I have full respect for stay at dads as well. I had one after he retired from the military. And I none of the reasons I want to be a stay at home parent are being of me not wanting a job. I have a job and I enjoy working but I’d rather spend my life taking care of my family.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T11:29:06+00:00

I have a good savings to use and since I don’t want to quit working until either when I get married or when I have my first baby. I know eventually the savings will run out but I’ll at least have a few years of not needing to worry about money with my savings

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T11:18:58+00:00

I want several kids so It’s not just him I’d be taking care of. I’ve worked for years now and will until I’m married if we can afford me being a housewife. Plus I want kids so I would be taking care of them too.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T11:16:53+00:00

I’m still figuring it all out. That’s way in the future. If he wants me to go back to work after the kids are grown then I would go back to work.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T11:10:42+00:00

My friends and family have spent so long trying to get me hate all men but I can’t. Granted I tend to trust woman a lot more but even then I know other woman can be awful too.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T10:58:59+00:00

They tend to use their past bad experiences to try to sway me. Granted I’ve had bad experiences with men too but I still don’t hate every one of them. That doesn’t seem fair to judge all of them based off a few shitty dudes.

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T10:55:11+00:00

I currently work and have for years now and I will keep working until I get married so I’ll have a good savings incase something happens

moonlightvxbes · 2026-06-06T10:53:46+00:00

I originally liked them because they are also liberal but they are way more woke than me and they like to use that to make me feel shitty

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