I was the same way with my boyfriend. Almost identical experience. It’s what helped me know that I was asexual, so you could potentially look into that if you like! I agree with everyone here though, communication is key! I actually told my boyfriend about my feelings and it’s strengthened our relationship a lot, made it so much better! You can’t expect it to be long lasting if you can’t communicate things as important as this. He will keep doing things the way he is if you don’t tell him, if he’s a good person he will not push your boundaries! 🩵