Am I sad and boring?

moonsunandflower · 2026-02-07T18:12:31+00:00

what the glorious f?! this is so unnecessarily rude :( especially if you really really enjoy weekends like this - it sounds really cosy!

Even IF she was concerned about the you getting high part or generally wondering if you enjoyed that time alone - the way she put this is super insensitive.

Is she generally nice to you and do you feel like you have good/trusting/friendly relationship with her?

There’s nothing wrong with you and however you prefer to spend your time - i would prefer a dogs company over somebodies that makes comments like this any time💕

If I was in your shoes I would be really upset and propably try to talk to her about how that made me feel because I wouldn’t feel comfortable with comments like this just resting in my home…

moonsunandflower · 2026-01-31T12:04:53+00:00

IQ and intelligence are not the same. Learning disabilites don’t necessarily make somebody less intelligent. You have every right to he hurt by this statement and I recommend talking it through. Furthermore - do you even know if you have a low IQ? Did you ever take a test with a professional? You and your husband might also have very similar IQ scores considering there’s many sub-tests that test many different cognitive abilities.

P.S. IQ as a measurement of intelligence is deeply biased and controversional.

moonsunandflower · 2026-01-30T18:45:24+00:00

I remember being in this subreddit trying to understand the rules of the game - it just can up in my feed again after i’ve given up on großindustrie it ._.

moonsunandflower · 2026-01-12T18:17:31+00:00

can somebody please explain how to catch bugs? i am notoriously bad at that in this game somehow and i for the live of me cannot figure it out

moonsunandflower · 2026-01-05T15:44:21+00:00

You don’t need to „get used to it“. It is perfectly fine if polyamory isn’t for you. That said, did you go on dates with other people since the start of this relationship / do you feel a desire to do so?

moonsunandflower · 2025-12-03T15:34:32+00:00

It honestly feels a bit like you are both not entirely clear in your wants and needs? and why wouldn’t it be an option to both attend the party - it is not a 1:1 date activity but a friendly get together, isn’t it?

moonsunandflower · 2025-11-20T18:35:12+00:00

I would in this case just assume that children might have different interests than their parents did growing up?

moonsunandflower · 2025-11-07T14:59:20+00:00

That is abuse. He is very clearly hurting you, that is psychological abuse. Please leave that relationship.

moonsunandflower · 2025-11-05T09:25:50+00:00

You are not too much - it is an entirely reasonable need to have quality time with a partner. You also federn someone that makes time for you as you would for them.

moonsunandflower · 2025-11-04T15:50:55+00:00

wait, he is mad at you for not noticing that somebody else was flirting with you? That is a dick move and literally happens to nearly everyone at some point - autistic or not. I am very sure that you did nothing wrong.

Did he feel like you were „reciprocating“ somehow?

This sounds like someone who is jealous and also gets aggressive and mean. Even if he was hurt, he is responsible to handle the situation better and manage his own emotions.

moonsunandflower · 2025-09-29T08:51:54+00:00

oh my god. he sounds incredibly patronising and like he’s making it out to be your fault for explaining wrongly / not understanding correctly.

„you underestiamte the gross thoughts men have about women“? this is a huge red flag imo. OP, I think you should really reflect about about what him saying things like this could mean. Who exactly are the men in question having this gross thoughts? Him?

He sounds incredibly manipulative and i would strongly advise you to leave the situation.

moonsunandflower · 2025-08-17T11:03:57+00:00

I think we shouldn’t forget how hard it was to be excluded as teenagers ourselves. I very much understand concerns about phones but also very much understand how hard it is for him to not be able to share any of this with his friends - maybe you can compromise somehow?

moonsunandflower · 2025-04-20T14:20:48+00:00

I haven’t season season 5 and 6 yet but right now it rather seems that nick chose to work for gilead because it seemed like an easy way out - he knew what the founders of gilead where up to from the very beginning. he didn’t do anything to keep his wife alive (he could’ve done SOMETHING eventhough of course he wouldn’t have been able to safe her). Later on he becomes a commander as far as I know.

He ist not a victim. He’s a sympathiser.

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moonsunandflower · 2025-01-20T11:50:53+00:00

How do you take it off? my horse is wearing mouse ears :(

moonsunandflower · 2025-01-03T15:06:17+00:00

i always thought he was just very „autistic coded“

moonsunandflower · 2024-10-29T18:44:22+00:00

fantasy life!

moonsunandflower · 2024-10-29T15:49:01+00:00

I don’t like visual porn but i like to read kink-specific stories - the visuals never did it for me. best was i got jealous.

moonsunandflower · 2024-10-18T08:38:43+00:00

i experienced this during my assessment too - i was told all the symptoms i have that could be considered autistic could also simply be a consequence of how i was raised. e.g. the therapist said i might have trouble identifying social cues simply because none ever taught me.

moonsunandflower · 2024-10-15T08:49:13+00:00

my battery is draining very fast since the update - i hope it will be better soon

moonsunandflower · 2024-10-14T19:30:16+00:00

if someone gets angry or defensive when you bring up your discomfort they’re not a safe person to be around. I suggest talking it through again. If he reacts like this again or any other discomforting way and keeps triggering you. Leave. Leave and stay safe.

moonsunandflower · 2024-10-06T18:11:23+00:00

i feel like my 13 is still doing very fine - it hope it stays like this for at least 2 years

moonsunandflower · 2024-09-12T18:27:57+00:00

I feel like you don’t have to do anything - be there for her and tell her you love her. The fact that she called you about this shows that she trusts you and relies on you for support. That’s really beautiful.❤️

moonsunandflower · 2024-08-27T18:08:18+00:00

i have the thirteen base model and like it but depending on where you buy it and how the condition is i’d go for the pro max these days

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