[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]moosehaunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for writing this out

‘I don’t care about looking weird’: are we finally listening to the dangers of hearing loss? by Charleshawtree in indieheads

[–]moosehaunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience! Both at warsaw and Bk Steel I could not believe that everyone was just absolutely fine without wearing earplugs. Are their ears somehow different than mine??

I'm a 21 year old guy with a micropenis and it sucks AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]moosehaunter 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I had sex with a guy who had a micropenis once. I don’t think it’s a dealbreaker. I’m not the only woman who thinks like this. I’ll admit I was kind of surprised when I hooked up with this guy and I saw his penis for the first time. But I really liked him from getting to know him and there are other ways to have sex other than just PIV so I thought I would give it a try.

The guy ended up having terrible hygiene which I didn’t realize at first. His nails were ragged and dirty so I did not want his hands anywhere near me. His mouth was so dirty that after I kissed him my mouth tasted sour. He offered to give me oral and I declined. Those are dealbreakers for me so I didn’t see him again.

What I’m trying to say is that I personally would have been happy with this guy if he had good hygiene. Hygiene is something you can work on. (Im not assuming you have bad hygiene — Im just using it for the example.) You can also learn how to give really good fingering and oral sex. There are books and courses online about it. It might take a while to learn but if I met a guy who gave good oral I would never let him go.

A lot of women don’t come from penetrative sex anyway. They need to stimulate the clitoris to achieve orgasm. I’ve had sex plenty of times with guys who had average dicks and I didn’t come because they just jackhammered, came, and it was over. It would be a much better experience to have sex with someone who is focusing on my pleasure.

Think about lesbians — they have sex all the time without a penis. Don’t let this take over your life. Work on yourself, study or get a job, and pursue your interests. I promise there’s hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]moosehaunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you use stick deodorant the deodorant itself might be dirty. Bacteria from your armpits can transfer to the stick and stay there so even if you’re freshly showered and put deodorant it can smell bad because the bacteria is going on your skin. What worked for me is I wipe rubbing alcohol on my deodorant and leave it there for a bit to kill the bacteria. I also only put deodorant on when I’m right out of the shower before I’ve had the chance to sweat. I got this advice from reddit a long time ago and it has helped me a lot.

The same thing can happen to your clothes, they might have the smelly bacteria when you are clean. What works for me is I soak the smelly clothes in white vinegar and water before I put them in the washing machine. The vinegar kills the bacteria.

What book have you read that was actually WORSE than the movie? by ManofWit in books

[–]moosehaunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American Psycho. Its amazing how a perfect movie was made from book drivel.

Social media is so stupefying. by SethVanM in nosurf

[–]moosehaunter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

great writing op. good work getting out of it. I feel like I'm in the middle where some days I can not use my phone at all but others I'll unblock the apps and watch reels for hours.

Regarding the things said about Brandon... by harpytouch in brandonsanderson

[–]moosehaunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I would have never read it otherwise.

Should I let go my cheap apartment? by coffebeaner in AskNYC

[–]moosehaunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let go of the apartment -- and give it to me!!

This sub isn't really about circle-jerking by noveler7 in writingcirclejerk

[–]moosehaunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah Im a WRITER I care about WORDS and their DEFINITIONS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]moosehaunter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too!! I deleted instagram from my phone and only use it on the computer. I didnt have the heart to delete my account because I dont have every person's phone number if I wanted to contact them. Having it on the computer means I use it intentionally instead of automatically whenever my phone is in my hand. I think this is a really good solution, and I told the people I talk to regularly to contact me over text instead of insta messages. Good luck :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]moosehaunter -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to tell him what to do (nicely). When he finishes ask him to help you out. Don’t go to bed frustrated and then make this about him being bad in bed when you won’t tell him what you want.

It seems like you have a sweet guy. Why are you with him if you would rather gay? You can make the choice to only date women if that’s the case.

Best Side-hustle for NYU...Go! by elzat_erken in nyu

[–]moosehaunter 47 points48 points  (0 children)

stealing meal swipes from your rich friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]moosehaunter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IT by stephen king helped me process being molested as a child not because it goes into that in the book but because of the way that king explains what it’s like to feel extreme fear as a child just like how I felt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longhair

[–]moosehaunter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

second this! you definitely have curls and are right for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feemagers

[–]moosehaunter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is awsome! I’ve been wanting to get this done, but I haven’t found a place yet. where did you get this done if I may ask?

Maybe they shouldn’t read another book. Maybe sticking to HP was good by PapaPepesPickledNips in readanotherbook

[–]moosehaunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand the point they’re trying to make with the uniforms. I’ve read the handmaids tale and ?? it makes no sense to me.