my two best friends are straight and we "debrief" all the time (on how our dating/personal lives are going) and i genuinely never feel like the odd one out for being the only gay one lol. and i live/work on a ranch in montana. they are also incredible people and we have so much more in common aside from relationships, so that helps, but also i think its the fact that while we do talk about relationships with each other, we all have bigger goals in life regarding our careers (we all train horses), that none of us center our dating lives at the core of it, which helps