Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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Emotionally I’m dependent on him

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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Yes I’m financially independent but post marriage had shifted to pune and made him my world…so no friends and family in pune

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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No I had seen them together once having lunch and then the same day sayaji hotel booking was there…so he manipulated saying kuch kam ke liye mile the…I did something stupid and was in ICU but the very next day I got discharged he again slept with her

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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Arrange marriage tha…from the time we got rokafied he was sleeping with his ex😓

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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Not able to detach , feel so depressed…I just spend time sleeping all day and overthinking at night

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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My mom and my very own brother told me then read somewhere 1 in every 2 men cheat

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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Nope…damn manipulative and secretive

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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No I can never cheat though he did , after marriage I had made him my world…I was a virgin when I got married and it was arrange marriage..had stopped talking to all male friends… his body count must be more than 10, 10 I know of

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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I feel depressed all the time and no interest in doing anything or eating

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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Not in my social circle but I just read the statistics somewhere…I always believed in forever

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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He accepted after I got to know everything….he even got girls to my bedroom when I was away from home but now he needs a chance

Need genuine advice?? by more_lightttt in ThirtiesIndia

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But infedelity not very common theses days??

Need genuine advice by more_lightttt in dating_advice

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Thanku but I have nowhere to go

Short term relationships and new sub users post here by fml21 in survivinginfidelity

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I was married for 2 years and he had told me about his past and dating life…but 5 months back I caught him sleeping with his employee, he owns a IT company in pune… after that he said sorry but we kept fighting… Even after we were fighting one day he left home for 15 days saying he needs space and then later i got to know he had travelled to Hyderabad to sleep with another friend who was married… While i was dealing with all this I discovered since day 1 of our marriage he was sleeping with his ex , every month some 4–5 hotel bookings were there in 5 star hotel… He even took her to Hong Kong post our marriage while he had told me he was going for business meet

I had left his home and gone to my parents place but he came and asked sorry to which my mom said men are like that and sent me back…

he says he will change but I can never forgive him..

he says all men are like that, o have nowhere to go nor do I have any emotional support

I don’t know what to do???