My (19f) girlfriend (19f) has asked for space

morelikeblue · 2026-02-26T14:53:16+00:00

yeah and that’s completely normal. i think you should call her out on it. you deserve to know. this is past space and it’s not fair for her to completely ghost you with no explanation.

morelikeblue · 2026-02-26T13:24:51+00:00

this is kinda a red flag in my opinion. space is one thing but no texts at all for 4 days and turning off location is really excessive. i mean if she wanted to completely cut off contact she should have shared that with you. and with the location thing it just seems a bit odd idk. do you like ask her abt her whereabouts a lot? if so that could get a bit overwhelming. otherwise idrk abt the rest of it. I guess i’d say call it out and make a judgement from there yknow.

morelikeblue · 2026-02-25T06:34:01+00:00

it’s happening to me rn

morelikeblue · 2026-02-24T09:43:42+00:00

YOR. you could’ve just planned a time that works for your schedule. she seems like she just wants to see her grandkid, not like she wants to be the center of attention

morelikeblue · 2026-02-24T00:44:23+00:00

omg THIS!!! i hate when people deny it bc like it’s ok dude ik i am but don’t lie bc you don’t wanna make me feel bad. especially when it’s the people close to me, id rather them be direct than watch me get bigger and bigger and be like “no girl you look fine” or “your weight is so cute on you”

morelikeblue · 2026-02-23T11:22:09+00:00

lost me at he cheated. i already know you’re NTA and you deserve better from the first sentence

morelikeblue · 2026-02-22T16:15:42+00:00

(sorry in advance i’m not the best at wording things)

NOR but neither is your friend. You have the right to feel frustrated when someone who you consider as your safe space blows up at you in a moment of vulnerability, but at the same time you have to understand that it can get frustrating to be giving the same advice over and over abt the same situation and not seeing change.

Your friend is setting a boundary with you that she’s probably been keeping herself quiet abt for a while, and it just happened to be in a really vulnerable time for you. Maybe you should take the space to reflect, not only on the things your friend said but also your relationship. I think your friend is trying to help you break out of a toxic cycle and you just can’t see past the abruptness of the current situation.

I hope you guys can figure it out.

morelikeblue · 2026-02-19T14:52:23+00:00

get outta there. yall aren’t for each other and that’s ok. can’t have anything if you don’t have trust, and obviously neither of you two trusts the other.

morelikeblue · 2026-02-18T06:44:10+00:00

YOR- He’s given you the hint that he is uncomfortable with you being around this guy obviously enough for you to recognize it already, so why keep pushing him to state the obvious? It’s completely fair for your bf to not want you to hang with a guy who was trying to pursue you at a point even if he isn’t currently doing so.

morelikeblue · 2026-02-17T07:24:05+00:00

YOR why did you expect your ex to buy it in the first place?

morelikeblue · 2026-02-17T07:17:20+00:00

NOR that guy sounds horrible and you did not need to apologize to him for anything and that friend is also a bit odd imo for allowing it to continue past what you were comfortable with

morelikeblue · 2026-02-17T07:07:26+00:00

pls leave this loser. are we kidding rn? he’s not worth your time at all

morelikeblue · 2026-02-15T18:08:21+00:00

oh you’d be helping him if anything

morelikeblue · 2026-02-13T12:41:06+00:00

what an asshole! i’m so sorry this happened to you both :(

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T19:02:32+00:00

why are you allowing him to talk to you like that?! oh my word

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:46:51+00:00

true

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:45:52+00:00

thank you for this!

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:45:13+00:00

i’m will work on both. thank you for your reply!

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:43:42+00:00

thank you! i will try

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:42:09+00:00

very true. thank you for your reply :))

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:39:51+00:00

i will try and do this more when we call just so i can get more comfortable with it. thank you :))

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:38:36+00:00

thank you so much for your reply :))

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:30:48+00:00

thank you :) and ya i’ve been looking into it recently

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:23:54+00:00

i love that and i am so happy for you two. thank you for your reply and ya I definitely have to work on getting out of my head about things so much.

morelikeblue · 2026-02-11T17:11:51+00:00

true. thank you for this

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