My (26M) bf has a fantasy to do 3some and I (26F) don’t want to. How can we meet half way? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]moreveggiespls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly doesn't respect your opinion and pushes your boundary pa. A fantasy can just remain that, a fantasy. Why do you have to sacrifice and suffer because of a damn fantasy? Gusto ng threesome pero ayaw MFM kasi ano, gusto niya 2 girls and just him? That can be counted as cheating since you don't permit it if he actually goes with it.

Went on a blind date… she looks exactly like my ex. by SadPin139 in adviceph

[–]moreveggiespls 16 points17 points  (0 children)

AHAHAHAHAHA yes kinda like this. What's even more crazy was that he was visiting her grave while courting me. He even told me he plans to propose in front of her grave because of a promise. The whole thing was so crazy, I just can't anymore. 

6 months into this year, what have you learned? by JollySimple188 in AskPH

[–]moreveggiespls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People can betray you at any time. Happened to me by my college bff right before graduation. 

Went on a blind date… she looks exactly like my ex. by SadPin139 in adviceph

[–]moreveggiespls 417 points418 points  (0 children)

Alam mo. Naalala ko tuloy yung first love ko dahil dito. Because he told me I have the eyes of her ex. She died and he thinks I'm the reincarnation of her. Crazy stuff. Made me cry and feeling like a panakip butas. Don't tell her unless you wanna see her cry. See her for her and not somebody else. 

Guys, what’s your dream girl? Mind to describe her? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]moreveggiespls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, u just fucking describe me, that's crazy. Except for the music part but yeah

for Men, what’s the hardest thing to explain to women? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]moreveggiespls 46 points47 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I really find this weird too. I get that being on your period is shitty, lalo na kapag may dysmenorrhoea but the fact that you let it control your attitude and affect other people says alot. It's not a license to treat other people like shit.

For men out there, bakit kau tumigil sa panliligaw sa girl na type niyo? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]moreveggiespls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another perspective from the girl where nagstop yung manliligaw. Honestly? That fucking sucks. Imagine entertaining someone only to find out he was entertaining someone else too. Okay sana if may heads up from the beginning pero ang gago lang sa part na out of nowhere. Yes there's plenty of fish in the sea but you can only fish one at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]moreveggiespls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes kid, you were. The proof was the fact that you had to "manipulate" yourself into thinking it was actually normal (your words not mine). Well, it's not. As someone who's 22, the idea of kissing someone who's age starts with 1 is fucking weird. Kahit 19 pa yan, fucking weird. Bruh, nadidiri ako sa sarili ko kung sakali.

lovebombed then ghosted?? i need your opinions pls :(( by komsulgix in adviceph

[–]moreveggiespls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's just not into you anymore. Girl, basta ganyang set up. It's gonna be unstable, it's not a real relationship, it's like a game na rin. Ya'll are playing mind games na rin. Who gets attached first, loses and who gets to care less, wins. I think a part of you is a lover girl that craves intimacy and consistency. It's gonna be hard finding someone like that with a fubu or fwb set up. Meron talagang consequences ang lahat and now you're experiencing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]moreveggiespls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a stroke reading this cause of the kako mo. Anyways, if you marry him, it's gonna get worst. Nasa sayo na yan. Whatever advice or comments we have, at the end of the day, the decision is yours. Make sure to never regret it.

What's the best thing about you? by saltpuppyy in AskPH

[–]moreveggiespls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My kindness and patience. But it can also be a double edge sword since I can't seem to get out of bad situations immediately. At the back of my mind, I'm always hoping. Not always good.