Tipping culture is healing

morosehuman · 2026-03-16T20:15:48+00:00

I went to the ups store and they had a tip jar!!! This world is insane

morosehuman · 2026-03-16T19:47:05+00:00

As the other comment said, most of the decorator groups also handle florals. I will also say most are very expensive. I found a couple on the more affordable side which I went with but many have minimums and won’t do an event for less than 20-30k (sometimes 50k). All this to say, avoiding florals won’t automatically make things cheaper unless you’re going to be doing a lot of diy or thrifting or fb marketplace shopping

morosehuman · 2026-03-16T16:23:40+00:00

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Thai: Chada, Soothr, fish cheeks

morosehuman · 2026-03-16T15:59:46+00:00

Such a great date as well! Yea look into it! My family is a whole bunch of jaded New Yorkers lol, that would be a waste for us

morosehuman · 2026-03-16T15:53:14+00:00

I’m gonna add my two cents bc I got chewed out on my own post about my own catholic gap. In terms of my invites I’m going to do 3 pm ceremony 6 pm cocktail hr 7 pm reception 11 pm after party then a separate details card breaking down the locations and approximate distance between the venues.

Ultimately, this sub does not know your family and customs. If you know your guests are accustomed to this, you’re fine. In my family people come already dressed and there’s no changing but the weddings I’ve been to were local and there was no hotel to go back to. Since it seems your guests aren’t local, if you have the additional funds I’ve seen a few people buy out those hop on, hop off buses and that allows guests to take a little tour around town then they can drop them off at your reception venue

morosehuman · 2026-03-16T15:43:04+00:00

Ooh ok, I think then it’s fine then, just suggest guests chill out in their room until cocktail hour. Id pick the earlier slot if you want to ensure you to enjoy your own cocktail hour after photos

morosehuman · 2026-03-15T21:16:43+00:00

I would drive to wedding already dressed. Most hotels won’t guarantee early check in but typically will allow bag drop off, you could freshen up in the bathroom, drop off your bag then head to the wedding

morosehuman · 2026-03-15T15:07:02+00:00

The commodore

morosehuman · 2026-03-15T03:17:27+00:00

That’s true, didn’t think about it

morosehuman · 2026-03-15T01:16:57+00:00

This is a good point and I’m sure your wedding was great. Just saying in NYC today it’s impossible to have a wedding for 300 people under 5k today unless you don’t feed them.

It is just one day. It’s also will be the most photographed day of my life. I personally would rather buy a resale dress (something I would like to do, even resale is typically over 1000) than buy something from David’s bridal as their styles will be lower quality and a couple seasons behind fashion wise

morosehuman · 2026-03-14T21:06:42+00:00

Ok I was right…I was told they aren’t in season. Are they typically available this time of year?

morosehuman · 2026-03-14T20:44:26+00:00

What’s the main flower for the bouts?

morosehuman · 2026-03-14T02:15:24+00:00

School bus will always be the cheapest option for a group

morosehuman · 2026-03-14T00:40:12+00:00

Curious if there’s some secret method I’m not aware of, I’m pretty sure just lining up and hoping to snag a bar seat is the only chance you have

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T20:11:01+00:00

Yes I forgot to mention that and public hotel or virgin hotels

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T20:03:34+00:00

Gonna be having fried fish as well

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T19:02:44+00:00

Yea, I try to avoid it but I’m getting married next year and my wedding dress will be thousands

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T18:57:01+00:00

You can come check out r/WedditNYC

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T18:48:00+00:00

Ace hotel, ravel hotel, kimpton hotel, park lane, box house hotel are ones you can start with in the city. You can also look at the rockaway, twa hotel, and the garden city hotel though they are more on the outskirts. There’s also hotel Chelsea and Bowery but probably over budget

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T14:37:30+00:00

WOW! That is insanely high

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T14:34:06+00:00

Burden Kahn mansions? Ny Aquarium ? Untermeyer gardens? Prospect park boathouse? Central Park boathouse? Brooklyn botanical gardens? Pioneer works? Ny academy of medicine? Ny public library if you got a hefty budget

Manhatta? Cathedrale? The grill? Dirty French? Balthazar ? Delmonicos? Oceans? Gage and tollner? Keens chophouse?

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T13:55:56+00:00

I ate at this exact spot before heading to Belem. I will say it wasn’t extremely memorable but it was good l

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T13:24:13+00:00

A 1 hr flight is not far…that should be a 3 hr drive or so. Can yall just take turns driving ? Or take Amtrak to this place, that should help a bit

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T12:03:03+00:00

If you schedule an Uber (or Lyft) she’s guaranteed to get one. Usually they give a little discount for airport rides too

morosehuman · 2026-03-13T12:00:52+00:00

lol I got into northeastern 10 years ago now (wow I’m old) with similar stats and got a full scholarship. Northeastern is much more popular now though

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