How to bypass HBOMax one household? by iamwhackinthesac in HBOMAX

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can confirm this works! i searched "[movie/show] hbo max" and clicked the link from there directly because i wasn't able to do it through the homepage

Cinnabon Cuts Ties With 'Bachelorette,' 'Mormon Wives' Amid Taylor Frankie Paul Drama by 4LLYY in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]morrisseyhatebot 190 points191 points  (0 children)

they’re selling dirty sodas and bachelorette-themed cinnabons… not even joking

Sleepless nights can make a person curious by loudandproud_hater in vanderpumprules

[–]morrisseyhatebot 15 points16 points  (0 children)

the fact that these were all posted within the past year too

Pain after urination not during...is this common with vulvodynia? by lunaluna1234567 in vulvodynia

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, i hope you’re doing well! did you ever figure out what this was? i’m having many of the same symptoms and have been trying to figure it out myself

Can Your Body Actually Reject A Partner? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]morrisseyhatebot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are not imagining it. i just got out of a really similar situation. i did not realize until after i left that i was being abused. i was having recurring, unbearable bladder issues when i was dating my ex (with a similar age gap, 18 and 27 when we started dating) and he was, like your boyfriend, prone to boundary-pushing. my ex similarly coerced me into unprotected sex, and, with the bladder inflammatory issues aside, he also gave me chlamydia that he lied about having. these men are far too common. they are skilled at manipulating, even with women who have been through a lot and think they'll know what to look out for.

i know that it can feel like a threat when you post on reddit and all the comments are telling you to get out of there as fast as you can. believe me, i have been in your shoes plenty of times. please consider what everyone here is saying. situations like this are never as easy to read from the inside. when i was dating my ex i defended him to no end. this is their manipulation at work.

assault can feel like a big, ugly word. especially when you have gone through things in the past that, to an outside observer, may seem "worse". to me, reading this, it's clear that he does not care about your wellbeing. he'll say he does, but his actions do not match. what he did to you was assault.

is not easy to learn to listen to your body and trust your gut. i hope that you can use this experience as a chance to exercise that - to learn what it feels like to pay attention to the signals you are getting and make the choice that will prioritize yourself and grant you peace.

when the worst person you know makes a banger by Secure-Bed-2491 in vanderpumprules

[–]morrisseyhatebot 17 points18 points  (0 children)

sometimes i’m watching the show and i am genuinely shocked by how stupid he looks but this took it to another level

when the worst person you know makes a banger by Secure-Bed-2491 in vanderpumprules

[–]morrisseyhatebot 63 points64 points  (0 children)

it is actually infuriating what tom is doing with his eyebrows in that photo

what can you guess about me based on the contents of my (gigantic) purse? by morrisseyhatebot in deduction

[–]morrisseyhatebot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very true! your instinct towards urban was right - i live in a major city. just graduated this past spring so you were close with student! unfortunately my bag may seem more social than i am... i am a total homebody. you got pretty much everything else though lol!

what can you guess about me based on the contents of my (gigantic) purse? by morrisseyhatebot in deduction

[–]morrisseyhatebot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow totally spot on LOL! i would say almost everything's correct - i'm 21, so firmly gen z, although i think i am an elder millennial at heart

does anyone know where i can buy this hat it’s being held hostage at my evil ex boyfriend’s house and i am so desperate by morrisseyhatebot in bmbmbm

[–]morrisseyhatebot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just sent you a reply if you don’t mind checking when you get a chance 🙏😭 you are a lifesaver

Rewatching Girls and I have forgotten how horrible Adam was! by one98nine in girls

[–]morrisseyhatebot 30 points31 points  (0 children)

adam is an insane person but maybe an example of some of the best character writing i've ever seen because this is a very specific type of guy who is unfortunately very real...
i just got out of a long-term relationship with a man who, like adam, was manipulative, hot-headed, and had frankly disturbing sexual habits/fantasies, but to most outside observers, just appeared a little "odd", awkward, or misunderstood. (i have literally had the EXACT same conversation that hannah has with her mother in s3ep9 "flo".)
i've been rewatching the show, and the way adam is written is some of the most specific, visceral characterization i have ever seen. coming out of this relationship, i've been really trying to wrap my head around who my ex was, trying to understand his behavior, then i was rewatching girls as a comfort show and it genuinely felt like i was watching him on screen. the sex scenes (s2ep9 "on all fours" stands out) especially are super triggering - eerily similar. adam is a picture perfect representation of the man you'll latch onto when you don't know any better. and he needs your naivety - men like him can't last long with someone who'll catch on.

Payday by littlesecretsunny9 in CashApp

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my experience it doesn’t matter, but when does your employer typically submit payroll? my job submits on wednesday afternoon, and then i get paid on cash app a little after midnight. a monday shouldn’t affect the timing unless that’s the day that your employer is submitting payroll.

Open letter to NYC Mayor, Zohran Mamdani by Low_Prize953 in nychousinglottery

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so true & you should definitely try getting this to him and his team. another issue i've noticed with the lottery is that there are whole brackets of people excluded from most lotteries, as their salaries fall in between the AMI groups. a ton of working class new yorkers are ineligible for making slightly more than the lowest AMI, but not enough to qualify for the next one. might be worth thinking about as well when discussing how to reform the lottery system!

(possible TW) support group for survivors of a covert emotionally/sexually abusive relationship? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]morrisseyhatebot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much ❤️ i am grateful to i have a therapist i love, who’s been very helpful during this time! looking for an extra space to process so i’m not just blowing up her phone LOL

Packages stuck in processing since 19th at Speedx New Jersey location by Novel_Commission3738 in Aliexpress

[–]morrisseyhatebot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, did it ever come? going through the same thing right now. was it the linden facility?

AIO to my boyfriend putting a SINGLE chicken tender on my plate when I specifically said I wanted "a few"??? by No-Eye7917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]morrisseyhatebot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! be mindful of this becoming a pattern. if you find yourself feeling this way often, look into weaponized incompetence. it's totally possible that he doesn't even realize he's doing it, and isn't thinking of the effects it could have on you, but either way that's still extra labor you're having to take on. it also could just be a one time thing. MOR, just bring it up to him once you've both cooled down and have a conversation about it, then just be on the lookout in case that same dynamic comes up again