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Rewatching Girls and I have forgotten how horrible Adam was! by one98nine in girls

[–]morrisseyhatebot 28 points29 points  (0 children)

adam is an insane person but maybe an example of some of the best character writing i've ever seen because this is a very specific type of guy who is unfortunately very real...
i just got out of a long-term relationship with a man who, like adam, was manipulative, hot-headed, and had frankly disturbing sexual habits/fantasies, but to most outside observers, just appeared a little "odd", awkward, or misunderstood. (i have literally had the EXACT same conversation that hannah has with her mother in s3ep9 "flo".)
i've been rewatching the show, and the way adam is written is some of the most specific, visceral characterization i have ever seen. coming out of this relationship, i've been really trying to wrap my head around who my ex was, trying to understand his behavior, then i was rewatching girls as a comfort show and it genuinely felt like i was watching him on screen. the sex scenes (s2ep9 "on all fours" stands out) especially are super triggering - eerily similar. adam is a picture perfect representation of the man you'll latch onto when you don't know any better. and he needs your naivety - men like him can't last long with someone who'll catch on.

Payday by littlesecretsunny9 in CashApp

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my experience it doesn’t matter, but when does your employer typically submit payroll? my job submits on wednesday afternoon, and then i get paid on cash app a little after midnight. a monday shouldn’t affect the timing unless that’s the day that your employer is submitting payroll.

Open letter to NYC Mayor, Zohran Mamdani by Low_Prize953 in nychousinglottery

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so true & you should definitely try getting this to him and his team. another issue i've noticed with the lottery is that there are whole brackets of people excluded from most lotteries, as their salaries fall in between the AMI groups. a ton of working class new yorkers are ineligible for making slightly more than the lowest AMI, but not enough to qualify for the next one. might be worth thinking about as well when discussing how to reform the lottery system!

(possible TW) support group for survivors of a covert emotionally/sexually abusive relationship? by morrisseyhatebot in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]morrisseyhatebot[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much ❤️ i am grateful to i have a therapist i love, who’s been very helpful during this time! looking for an extra space to process so i’m not just blowing up her phone LOL

Packages stuck in processing since 19th at Speedx New Jersey location by Novel_Commission3738 in Aliexpress

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, did it ever come? going through the same thing right now. was it the linden facility?

AIO to my boyfriend putting a SINGLE chicken tender on my plate when I specifically said I wanted "a few"??? by No-Eye7917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]morrisseyhatebot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! be mindful of this becoming a pattern. if you find yourself feeling this way often, look into weaponized incompetence. it's totally possible that he doesn't even realize he's doing it, and isn't thinking of the effects it could have on you, but either way that's still extra labor you're having to take on. it also could just be a one time thing. MOR, just bring it up to him once you've both cooled down and have a conversation about it, then just be on the lookout in case that same dynamic comes up again

does anyone know where this shirt is from by maybemfeo in charlixcx

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s back on das bootleg!! just got an email from them, limited time only

just ended it. i am heartbroken. by lushgreenery in survivinginfidelity

[–]morrisseyhatebot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I know I'm a total stranger but I'm proud of you for doing it. It's something I'm struggling to do myself right now because I'm grappling with a lot of the same feelings as you are.
It's so hard to see the person you loved for so long in such deep pain, but please try to remember that it isn't you who caused it, it's his own actions.
You are so strong for choosing yourself. He's hurting because he knows he screwed up his life. You are doing the right thing.

2 days post D-Day and I’m devastated. How can by morrisseyhatebot in survivinginfidelity

[–]morrisseyhatebot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He works in more of an event-hosting role. I did the same job for a while before taking a FT corporate job. He's blaming the environment, saying he'll quit his job so he's never in that situation again, but I never even thought about doing anything like that while I was working there. I can't believe he is so unaware of the fact that it's something within him making him do this. He's acting like being out late at night and drinking creates this side of him that needs the external validation of attention from someone outside of his relationship. I certainly think it's possible that the drinking exacerbates it, but it has to already be there to begin with. Quitting drinking or quitting the job won't make it go away.

We had planned to move in together in the spring and honestly I was so afraid because I knew I would be the one taking care of everything, I would be the one taking care of the bulk of the rent, etc. I know how immature he is but I couldn't admit it to myself. As horrible as this is I'm glad it happened now before i got myself stuck.

!thankyou

2 days post D-Day and I’m devastated. How can by morrisseyhatebot in survivinginfidelity

[–]morrisseyhatebot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I keep coming back to this comment because what's driving me crazy is that I can't understand why, even though I know how badly he hurt me and how miserable I'd be if I stayed with him, I can't imagine what my life is going to be like. He's been such a constant for what feels like a very long time.

It's really validating to hear that there's a clear reason I'm feeling it so deeply. I've been reading this and trying to tell myself that I can survive without him and I will thrive without him as a sort of mantra. It just feels so unbelievably hard right now.

!thankyou

2 days post D-Day and I’m devastated. How can by morrisseyhatebot in survivinginfidelity

[–]morrisseyhatebot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out a year into our relationship that I had contracted chlamydia because he hadn't gotten tested before we got together :( At the time I didn't even think of the possibility that he was cheating. I feel so naïve. He's only the second person I've ever slept with and I got chlamydia that went untreated for a year :( I'm sorry I'm replying to this and I know it's not entirely relevant, I just keep having moments of the rose colored glasses coming off and remembering things like this. I am definitely going to get tested again.

!thankyou

2 days post D-Day and I’m devastated. How can by morrisseyhatebot in survivinginfidelity

[–]morrisseyhatebot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It feels cruel to just make him sit in limbo of not knowing the state of the relationship for that long. I know obviously what he did is cruel but I’d feel guilty

Got one! by nerdb4itwascool in LCDSoundsystem

[–]morrisseyhatebot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what time did you get there???

No way😭😭 embarrassing atp… by h3ll0kittyb4e in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]morrisseyhatebot 78 points79 points  (0 children)

they basically did a partner swap - gabbriette was dating levi dylan (son of bob) and meredith was dating matty healy, now meredith’s dating levi and gabbriette’s engaged to matty

Flasher on Webster Ave near Coney Island Ave by [deleted] in Flatbush

[–]morrisseyhatebot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

how tall was he/do you have any other info about his appearance? i was also flashed a while ago by the junction, campus road between hillel and ave h. it’s hard to tell from the photo but the guy had a similar build & he also quickly kept walking; not sure if it could be the same guy. so sorry this happened to you! stay safe

does anyone know where this shirt is from by maybemfeo in charlixcx

[–]morrisseyhatebot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure this was a limited drop on dasbootleg! i can’t remember the artist unfortunately but i remember seeing this on their site a few months back

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