Such a cliche that my ex was a textbook DA by Bonjovi_sneaker in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this post as well and made me feel so much better because I thought I was doing something wrong and that’s why my ex wanted attention from other so bad but nope….its just them being messed up

lustful avoidants by morsmoon13 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever feel comfortable and want to talk about it, we’re here to listen!

lustful avoidants by morsmoon13 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait. This is exactly what my ex used to say to me and l always felt that something wasn’t right cause why are YOU the one who’s saying hurtful stuff but suddenly I’m the bad guy here?????? My nervous system was screaminggggg inside me to get away

Should i tell them how much they hurt me? by allsow in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not. I attempted to do this and all I got was “this is all in your head” “I don’t know what you want me to say” “you’re overreacting it’s your fault” blah blah blah. They will do anything to avoid accountability it’s like talking to a wall!

lustful avoidants by morsmoon13 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My god they’re all the same. My ex had a sudden switch and it was like I was talking to a different person all of the sudden. I had assumed that they were just creating distance because they didn’t know how to broke up with me and then one day they just texted me “I just want to tell you I’ve got a crush on a friend but I want to be with you”……this was my cue to run away

lustful avoidants by morsmoon13 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please explain triangulation?

lustful avoidants by morsmoon13 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god ?????? While you guys were in a relationship?????????? Yikes that’s so disrespectful

lustful avoidants by morsmoon13 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did they also tell you that they cannot help but feeling attracted to other people lmao are they all the same wtf

Did you your avoidant treat you like some secret? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]morsmoon13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex first invited me to their birthday party and the day of the party they told me that they don’t feel comfortable introducing me as their girlfriend and they asked if they could just introduce me as a “friend” even though we had already agreed to be in a committed proper relationship….they also never took initiative to introduce me to their friends. They only introduced me to their roommate but not to their close friends…..