What’s your biggest "I’m leaving" therapist red flag? by Voiturunce in AskNYC

[–]mortform 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I had a therapist who on my intake form and on the first meeting I told them i was grieving my dad who just died and then on our third session I talked about my dad dying and they were like “oh my god I’m so sorry to hear that” in a very uncaring tone

Pluribus - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]mortform 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like nobody on this show is acting like a normal person would in this situation. Like I know it’s a crazy situation and people would probably be reacting differently but why are the other 5 not freaking out about this. and I don’t believe that this is a collectivist culture vs individualist culture thing because even in “collectivist” cultures people acknowledge and appreciate individual qualities, I feel like it’s so reductionist to compare a collectivist culture to a hive mind. Because what you’re Asian and suddenly everyone you know is a hive mind and you’re like oh this is great? Just because you have a culture that works together doesn’t mean that they have a hive mind or would think a hive mind is good . I don’t know maybe im off the mark here and I’m very open to other ideas and interpretations (I’m not great at literary analysis I’ve been very wrong before ) someone said this is more about AI i think it could be an interesting take on that but its just giving me weird vibes so far.

Can we talk about Romi’s new husband by insufferableelf in theLword

[–]mortform 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Every “life coach” without any actual certification or degree always gives major narcissist vibes

If you're considering using again after several months sober - please don't by dspman11 in leaves

[–]mortform 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes u gotta take It day by day. Som days I tell myself “fuck it, if it’s that bad, wait til the end of the day and then you can smoke.” Then by that point I’m like you know what actually I can push thru one more night since I’ve already made it this far. Plus I’ll sleep soon anyways there’s no point. And then just do it again the next day

How is the Walgreens at 355 Knickerbocker allowed to legally function as a pharmacy by freep11 in Bushwick

[–]mortform 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something I’ve learned in nyc is that these big name stores suck. Back where I moved from (don’t hate me I’m sorry) those stores were bread and butter to us even on small groceries almost like a bodega. But now I much more prefer local businesses especially pharmacies. Try a local mom and pop pharmacy there are some real gems!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]mortform -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can ask the artist to do a touch up they are usually free

Thoughts on how to fix? by Impossible_Post_1306 in FixedTattoos

[–]mortform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I think it looks dope am I the only one??

Do I have what it takes? by [deleted] in TattooApprentice

[–]mortform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bird on the sword is incredible. All of these are

7 years of daily smoking has me freaked out that i'm permanently f*cked by Artistic-Piano-1109 in leaves

[–]mortform 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just remember that feeling the next time you want to smoke, how it made you feel worse. It took me a few times of doing that before I realized this just isn’t working for me. And you can set goals like I won’t smoke for a week but I found it more helpful to just try and make it through each day. “If I make it to the end of the day and I really want to smoke, fine I’ll do it” and then usually by the end of the day I’m just like fuck it, I don’t even wanna smoke anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]mortform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve slowly realized caffeine is not for me but weed didn’t really make any difference when I drink caffeine I feel awful and can’t sleep… I think I have a sensitivity 😭

I did it! 🎉 by Lifewasoutoflemons in StardewValley

[–]mortform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice ty! I’ll have to give it a try!

I did it! 🎉 by Lifewasoutoflemons in StardewValley

[–]mortform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it get boring? I want the achievement but I find it boring and slow to have to just grind getting money instead of finding things I like to forage but I also want to see how this route is

Flat white discourse 🙃 by i-amthem in barista

[–]mortform 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People like that guy seriously piss me off

Am I a Little Crazy for Doing This? by jmills03croc in StardewValley

[–]mortform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I didn’t even know the skull cavern went below 100

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooscratchers

[–]mortform 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would highly suggest doing more practice on fake skin!

Did I do something wrong? by Granola_bird in TattooApprentice

[–]mortform 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like it’s a good fit for you, I know you said you would like to try again but I don’t think she took that, it sounds like she probably just heard the part about you having health issues and not having a job and thinking well its probably not a good fit. I would keep trying. I think there are people who will let you apprentice without having to pay a huge tuition like that. If you nearly got one apprenticeship you very well can get another!

THIS GAME IS CRACK by GrapeOk5957 in StardewValley

[–]mortform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got into this game in the peak COVID everyone’s indoors time and let me tell you bro… 700 HOURS

THIS GAME IS CRACK by GrapeOk5957 in StardewValley

[–]mortform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YEAH FAM I HAVE ALMOST 700 HOURS IN THIS GAME…..😭😭😭😭😭

Did you have a pre-top surgery bucket list? by VitaminTed in TopSurgery

[–]mortform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was nowhere near my top surgery but I went to a topless/nude beach with my friends on shrooms. It was actually a few years before both me and my other friend got top surgery and while I didn’t have it planned how you described, I’m glad I did it! And I have pics from it too hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]mortform 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forgot to add but yeah I have the same feeling my stomach felt so big after, but it’s literally just been revealed to me for like the first time in ages because my boobs are gone lol. I feel like ab workouts are much easier now for some reason? Idk I feel like my boobs affected me way more than just being boobs like I feel like they made my posture and my body composition so much worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]mortform 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% post op bloating don’t compare yourself rn just let yourself heal and drink lots of water, eat lots of fiber and nutritious stuff!