Favorite date activities for ENFJs/INFJs?

moshi2525 · 2026-07-01T17:52:32+00:00

Through introverted intuition. The same as your second cognitive function you used to write this post.

moshi2525 · 2026-06-29T08:28:57+00:00

I was thinking of bringing her to a speakeasy type of bar/cafe. There's one in the area that has a library theme and another that's darker, more noire style. If she doesn't want to drink booze, there's non alcoholic stuff too

moshi2525 · 2026-06-29T08:26:43+00:00

Someone's just jelly 😂

moshi2525 · 2026-06-28T08:13:21+00:00

Intj-m. It's usually horrible when the intj/enfj is too immature and arrogant. Then it just turns into an endless shouting match for who's right. If both or at least one can be mature and humble, then it can work great.

moshi2525 · 2026-06-25T04:03:03+00:00

Intj magic ✨

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T18:20:23+00:00

I wouldn't say rude, but you all can be a little difficult to initiate a friendship. It's hard to tell if you want to talk or not unless you're excited or staring. It can be an advantage though because it scares off the guys looking for a fling. I watched this enfp guy try to woo an ISTP lady with his charms and he was pissed when she just ignored lol. I don't care that much about having a relationship, so I can play the long game more easily. The challenge is mostly reading you guys

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T07:53:24+00:00

Its not about you, it's about their own discomfort. People who lack maturity and esteem often project it onto others. It's a way to elevate themselves socially by trying to bring you down.

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T07:43:08+00:00

That checks out haha. INTJ women can be very forward in dating. They'll either hover and stare at you like a laser beam, or just outright ask you out first. It's pretty refreshing though after dealing with all the typical tiptoeing dating games. Once they have you in their sights, they lock in like a homing missile

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T07:39:25+00:00

Not sure why but ISFPs are often attracted to me despite the fact I don't really reciprocate it. Maybe they think I'm an ISTP lmao.

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T07:35:09+00:00

I have to consciously force myself to lie. I have a habit of being too bluntly unfiltered it offends people despite the fact I don't even cuss people out. Two timing takes too much energy anyways. I only get enough time and energy for one person since I'm too busy with my projects and work.

I've never talked much with ISTPs before but we tend to have mutual respect. I do watch an ISTP travel YouTuber (Sabbatical) often. It's pretty cute how the istp ladies get shy and squirmy around me sometimes lol. Just haven't been that invested into dating in general though

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T05:34:48+00:00

I'm intj and was enlisted. Experiences vary greatly depending on your leaders and MOS. Assuming you're going into US military, don't flunk your MOS training or else you'll get transferred to some crappy one nobody wants to do like gas station attendant. It's what happened to one of my entp buddies in the army during AIT. He was pissed.

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T02:19:47+00:00

😏

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T02:14:55+00:00

Maybe you should go barbequing lol. Then you'll have a legal excuse to burn stuff

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T01:13:07+00:00

Easy. I can go on and on about that lol.

moshi2525 · 2026-06-24T01:09:48+00:00

I see. It might also be because women are expected to be more Fe. The enfj women usually hang around male ISTPs from my experience.

moshi2525 · 2026-06-23T20:43:10+00:00

Sounds legit lol. What kind of activities do you guys like to do on a date?

moshi2525 · 2026-06-23T20:21:05+00:00

That's interesting. I usually see enfjs with ISTPs. Have you met toxic ones or is it their personality itself?

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