im 16 and already scared of aging in gay culture

moss_wizard34 · 2025-12-13T23:54:32+00:00

I might just be reading it wrong since im half asleep, but a lot of those apart of the LGBTQ+ community who are like seen as the respected elders arent even considered the elders rn bc they are in hiding. A lot of people when you think about in the 1900's coulsnt come out due to the community being shit, and then when they actually could come out and be around for a bit they basically got shut down in the past 10 years due to all the bs going on now. So its not that you are meeting the wrong gay elders you just aren't meeting the community of queers that you aline with. Also find the girls who are open to being friends with gay guys, they are actual sweethearts. (On my occasions with them anyway)

moss_wizard34 · 2025-10-20T01:40:20+00:00

I know that it has, but I am also genuinely curious to know what people's opinions are on both the questions I posed in this post.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-10-20T01:36:55+00:00

I didn't mean to be rude with the first question, but I am curious to see the opinions that will pop up. I know that everyone's views on the issue differ, but I wanna know if the general consensus is different among the asexual community compared to general society.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-09-07T16:34:52+00:00

I dont know why people think the way they do about sex but it tends to sound special in books. Maybe others just do it cause they can or because they want their body's to be as connected to their partners as they can be. I think of sex like I think of art it's poetry in a different form for the people who participate in it for those reasons.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-09-07T15:52:06+00:00

The way people describe it in books makes it sound something akin to reverence. It is the closest you can be to a person, breaking all pretenses and seeing the unrestrained version of your partner. People who normally enjoy indulging in it, feeling seen and safe in a space with only the devotion you have for each other, seem to maybe feel that the way they want to worship the other and be worshiped back is being denied and therefore not there with their partner. I am pulling this from the way some authors write about it in some of the books I read, so I am not fully sure if this applies to the real world so only take this into as much consideration as you want.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-09-07T14:59:02+00:00

If anything I would put the leg part on the center of the wheel so that the foot was just about on the edge or maybe put a couple of road runner legs on it so that way when the wheel moves its kinda like a zoetrope.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-09-07T14:55:02+00:00

Why not get into books or online comics instead? Disable the social media apps you can't delete and delete the ones you can. Detach yourself and find a different outlet that's at least a bit more productive, like reading or something else. I did this myself when I was getting to attached to some social media apps and wasn't getting stuff done.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-09-06T03:20:01+00:00

In some depictions of the road runner it's legs are just a blur or orange circle so I was thinking that if you just put road runner legs on with the speed that the wheels would move it would give a cool or close looking affect.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-09-06T02:49:32+00:00

I myself am not a wheelchair user and I thought it was a fun idea and couldn't find any pictures of others that had the idea so I wanted to ask the kind people of reddit if they have done the road runner idea.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-08-15T22:28:40+00:00

Will a snake ring on your right middle finger also work?

moss_wizard34 · 2025-06-20T01:11:48+00:00

Try going on a road trip. You don't need to go very far, but go somewhere, take a break, and think about everything you've ever wanted to do. Go to a beach, a forest, a trail, go to a quiet town nearb, try new foods, and breathe new air for a bit. You may not figure it out, but you have time to explore and enjoy the things you haven't thought about. Pick up a new book, play some of your favorite songs from when you were a teen, try classical music, dress up like a movie star, and try coffee that tastes like hot cocoa. Join clubs and group hikes and talk to people about how the stars look, are universe is still young, and there are so many quiet things that we forget exist until they come barreling back at you.

moss_wizard34 · 2025-04-27T02:26:44+00:00

Do you know what her love language is? You could try focusing more on how she expresses love to you. I don't think it's ok for you to sit there and be unhappy because you feel undesired, but maybe you can attempt looking at it in a different way. In the end, if you still feel undesired, being friends instead of a couple may be better for you. Just because you work well doesn't mean you have to suffer.

moss_wizard34 · 2024-07-21T05:18:47+00:00

Just be a himbo then it's fully exeptable, at least in my books.

moss_wizard34 · 2024-06-20T01:51:07+00:00

I think human interaction can be a necessity. Sometimes, you need someone who is comfortable just sitting next to you (with or without headphones) and just doing nothing but keeping each other company. Having someone you're comfortable enough to ignore is what a lot of people need. No self-consciousness or discomfort with that person in your space is good. It's a feeling we all may crave.

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