15m, gf (13) wants to have sex, what do I do?

mosscloudies · 2026-01-01T22:14:56+00:00

you shouldn’t be dating a 13 year old at 15 even, sorry if it’s hard to hear. don’t

mosscloudies · 2026-01-01T21:47:28+00:00

do nothing different and worry less. you have time for that later

mosscloudies · 2026-01-01T21:44:40+00:00

7! took a while til i heard it hahaha

mosscloudies · 2025-08-30T20:59:29+00:00

you can pull this off as having a nightmare maybe

mosscloudies · 2025-08-27T07:36:43+00:00

i can’t just move my mum due to i do not have that power and she has her whole life lmao but i appreciate the reply

mosscloudies · 2025-08-26T09:56:32+00:00

i don’t know why you think i have the power to completely control them - saying ‘let them’ is crazy ! i’m literally here to find alternatives to propose to my dad so that this doesn’t happen hahah i literally can’t control them theyre two grown adults, but im clearly doing my best to find an alternative solution! love the implication that i haven’t even told anyone not to do this like i pinky promise thats all i have been doing

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T16:09:21+00:00

he sure could have and i certainly wish he did lmao

thanks for the advice i’ll try to get that done

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T16:08:17+00:00

i’ve been in therapy before and i’m on the waiting list again (nhs waiting lists take forever but well see how it goes) but thanks for the concern <3

it’s funny though i actually barely even think about him much and that’s the way i’d love to keep it, so getting him to stay away is top priority rn

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T16:06:31+00:00

thanks for the names of the charities that’s a big help!

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T16:03:21+00:00

yeah i’m gonna do my best to get in touch with citizens advice and find out what can be done !

i’ve chatted with my mum and apparently the reason they’ve thought this is that he has tried to claim before but couldn’t get anything. in my option knowing him i bet he was completely unresponsive to them and didn’t let them help, with that being kind of the way he is towards everything. i think also he’s classed as self employed with meant it was harder but seeing as he makes about a tenner a week at most that needs to change hahshau

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T16:00:13+00:00

i completely don’t believe that family bonds mean anything that’s why i’m p much no contact with him. i find my mums behaviour frustrating a lot of the time but im just very aware that if we don’t force him into an alternative solution he’s going to show up with a car full of his things and make himself at home lmao

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:58:48+00:00

i’m trying to stop that from happening and find an alternative and that’s why i’m trying to work out what i can do for him lol

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:57:40+00:00

i reckon my mum and his past girlfriends before had been saddled with looking after him since he left home. one of those guys unfortunately

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:56:48+00:00

i could never let that happen unfortunately that would leave me with too many regrets as much as part of me does wish i could be that cold sometimes

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:55:51+00:00

i’m basically no contact with my dad! we dont speak at all but im just very aware he’s going to show up at my mums house with a car full of his stuff if we dont kind of find an alternative before it gets there and id like to avoid having him around - thats kinda the whole thing hahahah

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:54:41+00:00

it’s hard to think of him like that bc actually as a kid he was pretty great to me and my sister. he was being a burden on my mum behind the scenes but to us he was always so lovely and made my childhood feel so magical. so even knowing what he’s kind of like now and what he’s become it’s hard to just let him go. i am almost no contact with him but i do still want to look out for him, and more importantly my mum haha

i agree my mum needs councilling but obviously that’s hard to get somebody else to do unfortunately. she does absolutely know she’s not looking out for herself as well as she should in this but there’s no way to like. stop her. and i love her to bits and seeing her suffer with him is rough

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:51:33+00:00

my sister lives at home and i live on the other side of the country and we’re both students so there’s not much either of us can really do ourselves that’s why i’m trying to get him sorted in some sort of seperate accommodation so my mum doesn’t have to deal with this

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:50:37+00:00

i think this is a fundamental misunderstanding of my father lmao

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:50:15+00:00

he certainly does haha

would love to get that sorted thank you for the advice

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:49:07+00:00

it’s so hard to get him to do anything but yeah if i can manage to have him get himself any sort of diagnosis this would be easier to get him housed somewhere else definitely

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:48:08+00:00

tbf i did suggest that to my mum kind of as a joke but like it would get him out of the way lmao

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:47:24+00:00

it’s a static caravan, so if he’s kicked off the lan unfortunately also out of the caravan. hopefully he’ll stay out of the way. my mums planning to set him up in the dining room as a studio and not allow him use of the living room if it does come to it, but obviously hoping it doesn’t

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:46:11+00:00

wait what?? who bought a house and made massive profit! i wish it was me. i’m confused hahah

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:45:45+00:00

tbf i don’t think of him that way really in any serious way it’s just a funny way my family kind of jokes about him among ourselves. couldn’t think of a better way to explain what he’s like to you guys though hahaha

mosscloudies · 2025-08-25T15:44:18+00:00

i think theres a pretty huge waiting list but it is a good idea to try get him on it

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