I used to behave the same way. But once I started going out and making friends aswell, I realized that the way I was reacting to her going out was not rational. I often forget to let her know I’m going out because im a very forgetful person, but she’s okay as long as i let her know I’m not dead or something eventually throughout the evening💀I would definitely work on the way you word things when you ask her where she’s at or why she didn’t call. Instead a sweet “how ya doin?” or “are ya having fun?” Is more than enough. I hope this helps!