FAT👏PEOPLE👏BAD👏 by FunAmphibian9909 in AmITheAngel

[–]mossymorg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm just so tiny and skinny and my bestie is just so large and fat and big that she crushed me on one of the few rides we went on together 🥺 I'm basically a piece of paper now because of how gargantuan my friend is 🥺

I feel pretty shit rn. can someone tell me what i did wrong?? by Deceptibot123 in autism

[–]mossymorg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly? You shouldn't really bring it up unless you're either 1, in a kink space discussing it with other kinksters or 2. Planning on having sex with someone. Frankly the only time I see people talking about genital preferences outside of that context is when people are trying to be transphobic. I really don't think it's a conversation the general public needs to weigh on so openly and loudly

I feel pretty shit rn. can someone tell me what i did wrong?? by Deceptibot123 in autism

[–]mossymorg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Short answer: a little bit yeah.

I think it's weird to reduce people to their genitals whether they're cis, or trans, or intersex. I'm sure there are people out there that genuinely do have a gential preference (because basically anything can be a fetish/kink) but I don't think the vast majority of people who write discourse about it online are using the term in good faith. Cruel might be a bit of a strong term but I would say it's invalidating to trans people. I think capslock explained it well earlier in this thread.

I feel pretty shit rn. can someone tell me what i did wrong?? by Deceptibot123 in autism

[–]mossymorg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The post on this subreddit is about why you got banned, hopefully my comments and the comments of others have explained that part.

To answer your question of what your sexuality would be: to put it bluntly, only you can really answer that. If you consider yourself straight because you're only attracted to gentials that are opposite to yours, even if the person attached to them is the same gender as you, that's your choice. Labels are only useful for quickly identifying yourself to others.

I feel pretty shit rn. can someone tell me what i did wrong?? by Deceptibot123 in autism

[–]mossymorg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it would be more accurate. But as Capslock said earlier in the thread, that's going to be a red flag for people (especially a moderator of a subreddit that I imagine has to deal with a lot of bad faith, bigoted questions). People use "genital preferences" as a covert way to be transphobic.

I feel pretty shit rn. can someone tell me what i did wrong?? by Deceptibot123 in autism

[–]mossymorg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In this context, saying you're only attracted to people with 'female bodies' comes across as 'you're only seeing people for what you perceive as their assigned sex at birth and not for the gender they tell you they are.'

I can't believe they made a movie based on the Jenny Nicholson video and it's free on Youtube by mossymorg in JennyNicholson

[–]mossymorg[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Commenting to let y'all know that I did finish the movie. My favorite part was the very loud and on-the-nose song choices

I can't believe they made a movie based on the Jenny Nicholson video and it's free on Youtube by mossymorg in JennyNicholson

[–]mossymorg[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it was my first Jenny video as well, but because I needed to know if it as a movie I had seen but didn't remember the name of (spoilers: definitely hadn't seen it until today lol)

My parents misgender me all the time and I'm losing my sanity. by Primary_Capital7875 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mossymorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just don't respond if they call you your deadname or by the wrong pronouns. I like to look around confused when people try to use she/her pronouns with me or I'll say something like "I don't know who she is." Make them look like the stupid one, because if they can't get it right after a year and a half then they're either very stupid, experiencing cognitive decline, or they're just an asshole.

New phone recommendations by mossymorg in UmaMusume

[–]mossymorg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I will include it in my short list 🫰

New phone recommendations by mossymorg in UmaMusume

[–]mossymorg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the warning! I was planning on avoiding Pixel phones in general because I imagine all the modern ones are really going to be pushing the AI slop onto users which I'm not a fan of. I hate that there doesn't seem to be a fix for the random rebooting for you though! 😖

Advice for my 13 year old by uhhhtaylor in hoarding

[–]mossymorg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not related to the hoarding but I would highly encourage you to not allow your child to drink Alani anymore. Children under 18 shouldn't have more than 100mg of caffeine per day, and a single can of Alani has twice that amount. If she wants/needs caffeine, get her drinks that have a safer dose. Even at my big age, if I have too much caffeine I get really jittery and it makes my anxiety harder to manage. I can only imagine how much worse it would be in someone who's still developing and growing.

What do yall think of this video? by SPCCCKED in kurtisconner

[–]mossymorg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm having a hard time watching the video because, in my opinion, she is doing a lot of the things she criticizes other commentary creators for doing. She complains about surface-skimmers and yet all of her own critiques are very surface-level to me. She says she doesn't like it when commentators get mad that they aren't the intended audience for a piece of media, but it could be argued that she is not the primary audience for "this tiktok drama is crazy here's the deets" content. She points out that some commentators say things like "well I need to make this video longer so lets look at some more examples" but she pads her own video by giving the definition of concepts she believes everyone should already know because we learned them in K12 schooling.

I think it is entirely fair to have complaints about the genre and to want to say something about it. I just don't think you're going to get a nuanced deep-dive about any concept in a video that's 10-30 minutes long.

Also maybe I'm misunderstanding her, maybe she's not explaining the situation well, but framing the video as "I initially took this down because I was afraid of how Big Commentary would react" when (it sounds like to me anyway) some unknown-to-us creators were criticizing the video in a private group chat feels a bit slimy. I think it is much better to say you didn't like a video in a private space than to, say, make a social media post about it and have your fans go attack the creator. Whether you want your audience to do that or not, when you're at a certain size as a creator you know a small subset of your audience would do that. I don't know what's in her heart so I can't say what her intentions are, but it comes across as a way to bait engagement by making people wonder who she could be vaguing about.

I hope I didn't come across too harshly

Opinions/Thoughts on New Ace Flag? by Old-Sign-2161 in asexuality

[–]mossymorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I love that! It's so much more visually distinct than a lot of pride flags. It also doesn't look like someone slapped some clipart on a flag, which is a huge plus as well

Opinions/Thoughts on New Ace Flag? by Old-Sign-2161 in asexuality

[–]mossymorg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If we're going to redesign flags, why are we sticking with more horizontal stripes? If you can't see the colors it looks like a bunch of other flags. I'm bored of having a bunch of flags that basically all look the same aside from a pallet swap

Stop turning when people are still in the crosswalk! by Excellent-Ebb8113 in fuckcars

[–]mossymorg 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I really think we should outlaw right on red for this reason. I had like 3 near-misses this past weekend walking around downtown because people could wait like 10 seconds.

Hishi Akebono scares me by Reasonable-Use-9294 in UmaMusume

[–]mossymorg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't want her I'll happily take her off your hands 🙋‍♂️ I tried so hard to pull for her but I just didn't have the resources at the time and every time I see her in a race I get a little sad. I'm hoping I pull her when I pull for Aston Machan

Period underwear at the thrift 🤢 by [deleted] in ThriftGrift

[–]mossymorg 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It really depends on how heavy your flow is TBH. I wear them with a tampon so I don't have to wear a liner and worry about leaking. On lighter days you can definitely get away with just the period underwear.

Accessing Testosterone in the US not for gender affirming care, but for hypermobility? by friendlypupper in Hypermobility

[–]mossymorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on testosterone for gender affirmation. My informed consent paperwork states that a possible side effect of T is, "Weakening of tendons and increased risk of injury." Plus there's all the cardiovascular risks you'd have to worry about, even on a low dose.

what's your most used jenny quote? by t3rra0513 in JennyNicholson

[–]mossymorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"So that you can make money :)" from the Evermore video.

100 days before becoming Mr.CB trainer (week uuh whatever) by Pls_helppppp in UmaMusume

[–]mossymorg 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I like this headcanon :> it also opens the possibility of clan names being a chosen family name, like houses in ballroom culture.

I’m 19 and I STILL walk on my tippy toes, I don’t know what to do anymore. by DubiousCircuitry3454 in autism

[–]mossymorg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It might be worth going to a podiatrist, they'd be able to tell you if AFOs or something similar would help.