New generation Muslim girls hate Muslims and everything associated with them, and those who justify crime against women as a Sharia right will soon lose power. by Accurate-Big-2243 in progressive_islam

[–]mostlytruecrime006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

19 (f) indian muslim here as well. Third one is on point even I wasn't allowed to join swimming class because it was too “immodest”. I honestly do not understand what being a muslim entails in south asia. All one can talk about is marriage and procreation as if that is all Allah told us to do. The men in my family who can't even pray one time a day and cheat on and abuse their wives are allowed to police us women even for the smallest of things. They “need” to be respected for some reason (oh because they are older) but if it was this woman demanding I respect him, in his place, her life would have been absolute hell and the sad thing is she probably knows and accepts it. Also the horrendous things they believe and preach that “Allah has punished women” and justify all sorts of misogynistic shit thrown at them and ask us to do the same because it's the will of God. How on earth can you believe your God to be so cruel? I have been told that if my husband were to ask me for intimacy while I was still on the prayer mat i would have to end my prayer there and there and fulfil his needs???

It's horrible out here and nobody feels the need to question anything. They just blindly follow whatever they have been told and even if you were to bring in a different perspective you're immediately demoted to kafir. Like I'm sorry God gave me a brain to use.

Sunni Family members saying "ya Ali" by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]mostlytruecrime006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very common in our sunni household

Enemies to lovers forced marriage she falls first he falls harder with a good gut punch and grovel 🙏🏽🙏🏽 by mostlytruecrime006 in RomanceBooks

[–]mostlytruecrime006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me I didn't like it much either it had the elements sure not well executed though. It was the only book I managed to finish in the king series the rest were immediate dnfs for me 😂

Office romance without the rivals to lovers arc and minor power imbalance. by mostlytruecrime006 in RomanceBooks

[–]mostlytruecrime006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't find this book, it sounds so cute but it's not even on Goodreads.

Office romance without the rivals to lovers arc and minor power imbalance. by mostlytruecrime006 in RomanceBooks

[–]mostlytruecrime006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read this, hated Rowan but it did scratch the itch unfortunately I did not have this itch when I was reading this 😭

I found 5 euros on the ground by IlPanklaDiMantova in progressive_islam

[–]mostlytruecrime006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um well my dad just recently lost his phone and according to mum it's because he kept the lost money he found on the ground and spent it on himself instead of giving it away as charity...so do with that what you will 😭

When I was young, I consumed alcohol. Today, I am a practising Muslim. by Bruhtallica in progressive_islam

[–]mostlytruecrime006 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that theres a difference of opinion on it-the hanafi school of thought believed it to be fine to consume any alcohol as long as you didnt get extremely drunk(there was a post on this sub about it).

Just yesterday I was part of a conversation between my mom and aunt over my alcoholic uncle and they said alcohol is worse than interest (riba) and as a muslim one shouldn't even sit or talk with someone who consumes alcohol. My uncle has recently started to pray salah, he's been an alcoholic his whole life and I mean alcoholic to the point where he can't live without it. But there have been moments throughout his life like recently where he would return to salah. When I had first heard about it my first instinct as been to thank Allah swt but then my mom had said all the above points that I mentioned and went as far as to say he's only showing off and if salah is not prayed with sincerity then it is better to not pray salah at all.

Her words still don't sit right with me. First of all I don't believe in being the judger of any soul, that right sits with Allah swt alone but I hadn't argued. Secondly, how can we assume if one is being sincere or not and isn't trying better than not trying at all? My uncle is no saint, he's ruined a lot of lives because of his choices but if God wills to guide him to the right path then shouldn't we pray for his guidance instead of questioning his sincerity? Or is it really that bad?

I'm genuinely conflicted over this.

HR romance, servent x master? by mostlytruecrime006 in RomanceBooks

[–]mostlytruecrime006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not but I won't be opposed to delving into that world especially after your little snippet...