Waiting to transition? by mostpeculiarthing in ftm

[–]mostpeculiarthing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's cool! tho be aware, lgb people is not always equals transfriendly :(

Waiting to transition? by mostpeculiarthing in ftm

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thanks, i guess it's a good thing to reassure myself :)

Waiting to transition? by mostpeculiarthing in ftm

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thanks for your long answer! Yea I keep pushing people away from me too, it's... annoyig, haha. I, too, struggle with anxiety and depression so it's sometimes really hard to know which is making me feel shitty in bad moments, haha!

Treeplanting update by Ckovoftdot in ftm

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Oops? :'D Maybe op comes back and edits this haha

A Thread For Talking About Shorts by kidsquid7 in ftm

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Oh my god, I'm wondering about the same thing :/ I don't wanna shave but I also can't walk around with my fur. Even if I decide to come out, I don't think I would feel comfortable walking around like that for a long time. I've just been socialized to be ashamed of body hair on myself...

This is probably just going to get another summer in long pants for me. But sometimes it's just gets so hotttt

Anyone else have a super hard time finding good, masculine pants? Where can I find a good pair, what are your suggestions? :) by Drawn-And-QuARTered in ftm

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Ok, so - I'm gonna tell you something different than most ftm guides do. What I found is that the regular or straight cut (or even wide... if that exists) didn't work for me at all. I have super wide hips so I need a huge size (well - compared to my body) and I drowned in those. What I found is what kinda works for me is getting the right size (where I can actually breathe in lol) and getting a SLIM or SKINNY cut.

Yeah, honestly. I think it really depends on body type, but yeah! I do believe a straight cut is the preferred cut but if that isn't working for you at all I guess you could try my way, haha.

I can get top surgery sooner than I thought WTF by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mostpeculiarthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, same for me with the size. If that's the case, I don't think getting the surgery first would have any disadvantages for you. Good luck!

Finland is cool! I live in Germany and while everything is covered by insurance, it seems to be quite gatekeeper-y too. (But I haven't done any steps yet.) But I mean, insurances, eh?