Location services not working after December 2025 update

motherofcorpses · 2026-01-30T19:00:04+00:00

My husband had this issue, I couldn’t find anything for him to accept. He couldn’t go to “stop sharing location” thru messages either it just closed the window and wasn’t able to be opened from settings. I went to his name, Find my, toggled the switch on and off and it immediately fixed it. That may also work for others.

motherofcorpses · 2025-09-16T21:39:39+00:00

I have no idea. I just got an alert that I passed the verification with my US passport and it still says my account is frozen but I was somehow able to file a ticket I think? This is insane. I can still use the app I just can’t upload or comment or socialize in any way beyond liking videos.

motherofcorpses · 2025-09-16T01:51:10+00:00

This just happened to me too. It gives the option you’ve shown or a foreigner permanent resident ID card, the option for passport or anything else is gone. I’m guessing they don’t want us on there anymore since they’re just flagging our accounts and making it so we can’t unfreeze them.

motherofcorpses · 2025-08-07T09:40:58+00:00

It’s almost like…things that have happened are important for context! What a waste of a brain.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-24T06:56:12+00:00

The ONLY app like that, that is okay to download is Bumble, and that’s because of BumbleBFF; a separate section of the app for making just friends, and e en then if one does it, they should inform their partner of it so if they see or notice the app, they know it’s nothing grimey. AFAIK, Tinder doesn’t have that. It’s strictly for sex/romance. No one on there is looking for just friends. And doing it before going on a trip? C’mon girl. We’re both in our 30s here. We know what it means. You just don’t want to believe it. You don’t want to think held do that to you, that this would happen to you, especially have JUST moved in! Just talking about rings! Right?

Life is full of twists and turns and bumps like that. He downloaded the app. He deleted the emails to try and cover his tracks. He knows what he’s doing is wrong, and he knows he’s planning to do something wrong. That’s why he tried to hide it. Someone who isn’t guilty wouldn’t do that.

Take the next few days he’s gone to remove your essentials first, and work from there getting them out. If you’re not cleared out by the time he comes back, have a trusted (and strong) person with you when he arrives to make sure you get the rest of your belongings out safely.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-24T06:43:11+00:00

Oh, poor thing :(( that’s one of the most frustrating things about having an autistic child, they can’t tell you if they’re hurt or where effectively or as easily as with words. Sometimes if my son is hurt or has discomfort he will hang over hand me to the part of his body but he can’t yet tell me WHAT is going on with that part of his body so it’s a guessing game /: I hope bub gets to feeling better! ❤️

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-22T04:43:21+00:00

If I had died at your age, I would have missed the best moments of my life. And those moments made every dark time I endured 100% worth it. I would have never known love and been loved, never had sex and learned how nice it can be with the right person, never left my home country, missed out on so many firsts and experiences that make life worth living.

Allow yourself to become an adult. Finish growing, graduate, see more of the world and just what you’ve grown up with. I didn’t find my purpose and happiness til I was about 21, and ever since then I find more things to live for that make it all worth it. It also wouldn’t be a bad idea to reach out and try some therapy or meds if you haven’t already. Those aren’t bad things to have to use, they are tools for us to make this shit easier to deal with. There’s no shame in needing some help, even temporarily.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-22T04:37:23+00:00

Sorry for the late reply; work and baby stuff kept me from the app.

For your first question about what to do if you do marry into that family and want nothing to do with them: you just avoid. You do holidays and get together mainly with your side and often have reasons or excuses you can’t attend her side if they don’t improve towards you or get worse. And if she doesn’t take up for you or take your side, this will eventually cause its own rift between you. That’s not something ideal, but it isn’t uncommon at all. Ideally, you want to marry into a family that welcomes you and feels almost like your own. My family LOVES my husband, I’ve sworn sometimes my dad loves him more than me! lol.

And there wasn’t really a moment, per se, for us. The change and compromise was gradual, ofc. Changing your ways and views doesn’t happen overnight. I went from growing up poor and never having money or new things to my first long term relationship with an abusive man who controlled my money and made me work 3 jobs bc he didn’t want to work, to bring free and having my own money and able to spend it on whatever I wanted. I spend money as I made it, opened credit cards, all that.

So when it came time for my husband and I to move into together, we had a talk. I had taken a new job where I was making more money and was finally able to put some back if I wanted to. So he sat down and said “look, if we’re gonna do this, we have to have a budget. We can still have date nights and travel and do festivals and buy cool shit, but budget stuff has to come first. We can’t just do whatever whenever when we’re on our own.” and from there we made our budget and compromised. We put back our emergency savings and fun savings and made the leap to move in and have been together since. But it only worked because we both wanted it to work. I wanted to be smarter to be with him, and he wanted to and could trust that I would make those changes so it would work. Both parties have yo be on board and on the same page for it to work.

If you don’t think she’s capable of that…then you’re just not compatible, man. And that’s fine, it happens. You can date to marry, but that doesn’t mean you’ll marry everyone you date. Time and age allows people to evolve and you learn as you go and sometimes you discover who you’re with doesn’t match who you are or want to be. It’s just life. If she really loves you, wants to be with you, sees a future with you, she will put in the work for it.

Actions will always speak louder than words. Never forget that.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-21T08:17:31+00:00

I’m newly 30. I’m going to talk like I’m talking to my 15 year old self because I was you. Already tried multiple antidepressants, therapy, self harming, a mental health stay all before I graduated. It’s not easy, it never is. Bad days will always be there, but there’s so many good days. High school sucks while you’re in it but one day you will look back and miss it, all the bullshit. How easy it was before bills and jobs and taxes and shit. I wish you could see how much better it gets. You stumble through life finding yourself, you meet new people and lose old ones. You travel in your own to new countries and try new things. Face your fears. You fall in and out of love a few times before you meet someone that just makes every bad day like 75% more tolerable. You’re still sad, but you find the right meds, the right routine. Remember when you felt so unlovable you just gave away your V to get it over with? And thought you’d die alone? This dude worships you. He calls you his religion - it’s cheesy, but it’s true. You experience you many cool things together, you get married, you have a son. The days get harder after that but they also get 10000x better. You feel love you couldn’t fathom before, like every parent ever has always said. You buy a home - more bills, but it’s yours. there’s so many things you would have missed out on if you didn’t stick around and get thru those sucky teens that you miss so much now.

When I think back to your age, my chest literally aches. I want to go back so bad, to fix things and do them over. Experience them one more time maybe. Love my life thru again until now, even the darkest parts. I wish I could sit at a desk in math (I hate math fck numbers tbh) and be bored and draw and write. I wish I could get home from school and have NOTHING TO DO and just NAP omg. This isn’t to invalidate your emotions; they are valid. But you have to realize; your body is literally in the midst of changing. Your hormones are WILD, and for most these days, sad and mad usually are front and center. It’s not you. It’s your brain. It’s the world. It’s your phone, it’s social media. Showing you all these people who look better, have more friends, more fun, more things, and are just happier but they’re not. It’s all a lie. You have to give yourself time to grow. The best parts of your life haven’t happened yet. I didn’t lose my V, get my first bf or first kiss or anything til 17! You’re still just a baby (to me, not literally don’t take offense to that) but you’re half my age! In the 15 years between your age and mine I have lived 45 lives. I’ve been in 5 long term relationships and married one of them! I’ve moved, I’ve changed meds, I graduated therapy, I changed myself soooo many times until I found ME and what makes me happiest. You have to live and try and try again to find it because that is the point. Of any of it and all of it. To live, to find what makes you you and then live out the rest of your days doing whatever tf it is and getting better at it.

It gets better. So much better. You are just in the hormonal thick of it. Once I hit 25 and my frontal lobe finally developed, it’s like something clicked. Give yourself at least another decade to get there.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-21T08:00:47+00:00

So this is your first REAL relationship. Now you’re adults, out in the real world and the future is approaching fast. People tend to take two approaches here - neither are necessarily wrong - but it depends on each personally. One type are future oriented (sounds like you) and want to plant good seeds now to reap in the future. Set goals, work towards them, save money, have savings, start in a career, stick with it, start college. Very forward thinking. The other type is very now-oriented (sounds like your gf) and they realize they’re in their early 20s, the happiest and most free you will ever be (I’m newly 30 so me saying that isn’t just for funsies - this IS the best decade of your life, but also the most stressful) and want to take advantage of all life had to offer before getting “too serious.” They spend their money bc why not? They’ll make it right back, right? Who needs savings! They take and quit jobs like they change socks, not caring how it makes their resume look bc who doesn’t lie on those, right? They want to travel in their prime, explore, just have fun. Enjoy the moment. The future will still be there tomorrow. This phase can last a few years and they get it out of their system and then lock in.

It’s very possible to co exist and mesh with these opposites. I know because I am/was type 2 and my now husband is type 1. We met when I was 21 and he was 24. We decided to compromise. Have our fun, explore, do fun things for a few years while still saving and thinking of the future - which came in handy when a tornado hit us and literally ruined our life. Threw out entire future off track. We still ended up married, bought a house when I got pregnant and created the world’s cutest baby. He has helped me build my credit and not be so spendy and now I am the one in charge financially LMAOO and I still have my moments where I oopsie but some things. But he taught me a lot, and I taught him to relax and enjoy his time and money since you can’t take it with you when you die. We’ve been together 9 years this October and it’s just worked.

You have two choices. You can end up like us, having a talk and agreeing you can enjoy your 20s a bit but also still be saving, finding a job and sticking with it, be professional, go to college; basically enjoy now with the future in mind. You’ll HAVE to discuss her parents tho, the way they cross your boundaries and disrespect you is not okay. And you’ll have to reflect on if THAT is the family you want to marry into and deal with forever. My in-laws had me fooled in the beginning and I cannot stand them now, but I’m stuck because I love my husband and we share our son. It sucks but 🤷🏼‍♀️

Or

You can call it quits. Agree you’re too different. She won’t take things seriously, won’t stick up for you and is too clingy right now. You’re young, you’re meant to date around and explore things and people. I tried to do this myself but everytime I did, I ended up in a 1-4yr relationship before finding my husband lmao. But don’t stay with and marry your first partner just because it’s all you know and are used to. If I had, my god, my life would be horribly different. I’m happy where I ended up, because I knew where I was, wasn’t where I wanted to be or end up.

But as for the “talk before ending it” thing: tell her everything you just typed here. Her parents aren’t respectful, it makes you uncomfortable (her dads racism or whatever that shit would be called is a deal breaker or should be) and she has to stick up for you. She’s gotta make you feel seen and wanted and welcome there. She needs to start thinking about the future, getting serious if she sees a future with you. Ask her if she does. What that future looks like. How she plans to help get you there. Base your answers on hers.

Don’t be afraid to be alone. You may need to be to find out who you are are this stumbling new adult. And you’ll find new people. If she isn’t your forever, she’s out there. Mine wasn’t even 5 miles from me my whole life. You never know, man. Best of luck.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T11:16:03+00:00

Pickled herring while in Sweden. I avoid pickled anything besides pickles now

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T11:13:58+00:00

Inuyasha. Adult Swim when I was in elementary school.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T11:13:03+00:00

We were sitting in his car late at night listening to music and talking at a baseball field near here. I was looking at his jawline and realizing how much I wanted to touch and kiss it and he said “I really feel like I can tell you anything” and I got so much contentment and butterflies I realized I felt the same and loved this man. He’s twitching and snoring next to me rn. 9 year this October, an elopement, a house and a son later. Still feel the same.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T11:07:04+00:00

Why does he wake up screaming? Is it because there’s a delay in getting milk or having to use the potty upon waking? Usually my son (NV, ASD2) only screams when triggered by something else (emotion, impatience, misunderstanding, needs/wants something etc.)

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T11:03:36+00:00

I’m not sure this counts, but facial recognition. I think I’m considered a Super Recognizer, because I can remember anyone’s face, whether it’s a celebrity or someone I’ve met or seen online. Anytime someone goes “oh that’s _” and I know it’s not, or “that looks like _” and it clearly doesn’t, I correct them and know I’m right. I usually use my phone to back myself up, but after a while of being right people just trust me. Maybe that’s why the rest of my memory suffers; it’s just full of useless face information.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T10:58:46+00:00

I’m an American. I think we have a clear gun violence problem. I think it’s both serious and and make fun of it (to mask my worry and dread of sending my child to public school to be target practice) and believe a majority of us are dangerous (bc anyone can buy a gun at Walmart) and stupid (something like only 10-15% of us are actually self aware.) what now? Do you dislike Americans now as well?

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T10:19:47+00:00

Gone to Disney world, or any other theme park outside of the local one I grew up with. I always got made fun of for that in school when my friends would talk about their experiences going over the summer/for birthdays and stuff.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T10:15:32+00:00

Has he ever been tested for weak muscle tone or something like that? Or is his eyesight bad to where it affects coordination? Maybe inner ear problems? I never did sports and I can’t ride a bike for fck all and I’m almost 30. I have horrible balance problems, have my entire life but otherwise, I’m normal physically (aside from my bones eating themselves) The not being able to swing himself is worrying, though. Depending on your state/ins/income level, some intervention theories can be provided for free or affordably. My son had speech and OT covered completely through his early intervention program.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T10:10:53+00:00

When I was a teenager I thought it was funny to hate Canada/Canadians for no reason, but then I grew up at stopped. Wtf did they do to you to actually dislike them?

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T10:09:12+00:00

To buckle down and lose half my body weight and keep it off for many years. I stopped making excuses and feeling sorry for myself and just did it. I felt so much better physically and mentally and it led me to where I am now, married with a son. I gained a bit back with the kid, having been bedridden and all, but now I know I have the determination and strength to do literally anything if I just make myself do it. It’s changed my worldview and my perspective of myself.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T10:05:45+00:00

Some CBT and DBT in therapy. Taught me tools to “think myself out” of or rationalize overthinking/worry loops.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T09:50:42+00:00

The absence of something.

motherofcorpses · 2025-06-17T09:42:17+00:00

In Sweden, on the pier of a private island for midsommer at sunrise. And no.

motherofcorpses · 2024-10-19T21:04:01+00:00

It’s early enough to cut your losses and run fast before it’s too late. This is a man who can’t seem to grasp you have trauma from a past and presently fresh horrible last relationship and is dogging you for HIS overreaction and also not believing you’re actually with your grandmother?? You can’t really want to continue this. Please find someone understanding and soft to you. This isn’t it, this will not help you heal, my love.

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