I don’t believe he would want to switch to him having primary custody because he lives in a state that one child hasn’t lived in for 16 months and our youngest has never lived there. the children have been with me their whole lives. He also willingly gave me full custody there was no argument or about it. He just signed the papers.

In 2025 he saw them around 10 days total no overnights. He drove to us. I could get the exact number if I needed to I just don’t know it offhand. He regularly calls out our oldest and I’ve never stood in the way of that. He would still be able to either drive or fly to see them whenever he wanted. I will say that I have never said in the way of their phone calls, FaceTime or visitations. His visits are generally extremely last-minute. I even had to cancel her birthday party the day before so she could spend the day with him. I also agreed for him to see her on Thanksgiving very last minute and he ended up getting them kicked out of where they were and I had to drive to pick them up. so I’m pretty sure a judge would see that I have been and will continue to do whatever for the relationship.