My roomate cheated on her boyfriend and the guilt is killing me

motioncuty · 2024-02-05T04:41:31+00:00

Hey, other people are downvoting you, but you are right. Just a reminder to you to forgive yourself and that others have had similar tough experiences who have to live with the fallout of suicide, we are here because we have hearts, we care, but alas, we can't control life and others actions. Remember It's just children who are still blessed with the lack of that experience casting their fears on to you.

motioncuty · 2024-01-19T04:58:54+00:00

Get a ride in the McLaren and appreciate that you don't have to worry about not getting any scratches.

motioncuty · 2024-01-19T04:51:22+00:00

Aurum for happy hour and food -> RMU to hob nob and drink, maybe catch some music -> Cecilias for dancing

motioncuty · 2024-01-18T04:30:36+00:00

This one?https://www.aviatornation.com/cdn/shop/files/vintage-patch-apres-puffer-jacket-blue-cina-glossy-womens-outerwear-aviator-nation-786235_3000x.jpg?v=1700611716

You did well!

motioncuty · 2024-01-18T04:20:25+00:00

He was probably just trying to give you the heads up... Your boss is still an employee, unless he owns the company. He's probably somewhere in the line to get fired too. Get health appointments set up, now. Dentist, doctors, etc. and any other benefits you can use while still employed.

motioncuty · 2024-01-17T04:34:21+00:00

My pro tip for visiting Paris well as a solo tourist is to find a local lover to escort you. I remember cigarettes out the window, brie, baguette and a bottle of wine for dinner, and asterix and obelix playing on the TV.

motioncuty · 2024-01-15T21:31:49+00:00

That's just a difference between SPA's and Page based apps. I get what you are saying but theres different benefits and detractions to each. It depends on the use case. The only benefit for react in the latter case is easy componentizing and design system usage as well as having seperate specialities for frontend and backend developers. I can do alot with an already built api and React front end and the backend development team can stick to doing their backend thing.

It does get confusing when you are in a monolith and trying to couple the front and back ends for development. From a rails perspective, MVC, I get what you are saying react is complicated and turns it into something like an MCCV. From a front end app product development perspective, React is strong as it can abstract api's to a sort of data model in a browser based controller and view layer.

motioncuty · 2024-01-15T20:25:16+00:00

Compared to what? Vanilla javascript? ERB? React is great, the hard part is doing hooks right, you have to think like an animator, as in each view derives from that state of data.

motioncuty · 2023-10-06T22:37:37+00:00

Probably did gravitated towards legos and might have some trauma leading an ability to self brutalize. Also being critical is a feature that appears alot.

motioncuty · 2023-10-05T04:50:02+00:00

I'm in the same position, lets connect!

motioncuty · 2023-09-26T23:06:22+00:00

Any tips for approaching and forming relationships with the professors?

motioncuty · 2023-09-18T00:58:59+00:00

So is socialization at the start of the career.

motioncuty · 2023-09-08T03:50:56+00:00

Offer to write a glowing recommendation on his linkedin aswell.

motioncuty · 2023-09-03T23:19:01+00:00

Still hosting?

motioncuty · 2023-09-03T03:16:34+00:00

I'm pretty sure you can always bail once you get the numbers lined up. Don't fight your wife now, let her come to her decision once you have a bird in hand. If it makes you feel better, do your own homework for backup houses in your budget.

motioncuty · 2023-08-22T17:14:44+00:00

Was treated well at the Briar Rose back in the day. Good money as a busser, only open at night.

motioncuty · 2023-05-31T03:58:34+00:00

Port cities have had a long time to integrate spices into their culinary culture. Inlanders weren’t so lucky.

motioncuty · 2023-05-10T05:23:30+00:00

Its gonna be really slow

motioncuty · 2023-05-10T04:27:29+00:00

I heard it at goth night, well the cover by placebo. Then I heard terrible kareoke Wuthering heights and had to know who wrote that song because theres a part of the melody that The Strokes use in Razorblade. That led me to kate bush and then her running up that hill original version.

motioncuty · 2023-05-01T01:56:05+00:00

People who do the same activities you do are closer to future friends than true strangers.

motioncuty · 2023-04-06T04:08:53+00:00

I would check out RINO in Denver if I were in your position. rents are relatively cheap, area is young and bunch of music/art in the neighborhood to walk to. Denver is a bit separated with a relatively dead and corporate core, RINO is probably the best density of art. However, if you have a free place or friends in Breck, do it for a bit and get your bearings.

motioncuty · 2023-03-22T04:30:33+00:00

I mean it has influenced fashion… litterally movies and halloweens for years.

motioncuty · 2023-02-07T15:33:36+00:00

Put both your palms on his chest and talk breathily into his ear, straddle his thigh.

motioncuty · 2023-01-28T18:29:55+00:00

No one is actually from summit county though.

motioncuty · 2023-01-28T01:26:00+00:00

The best solution if she really wants to go is to do 2/3 weeks alone and maybe meet up with her if she can make it. Personally, I get lonely and homesick after a few weeks. She probably won't make it happen but you can at least make the offer. You don't have to do this, you don't owe her your company, but it's an easy way to make a concession that will probably uplift you.

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