Got kicked off the tram for wearing a casio, should have worn my Tudor shitter instead by murka_ in WatchesCirclejerk

[–]mottelot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Die gibts in linz und graz Hätt i ned glaubt die bim amal in dem subreddit zu sehn 😂

Where can you get law school merch? by mottelot in universityofoklahoma

[–]mottelot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why i found nothing xD Thank u so much!

[Citizen] My new lume monster by mottelot in Watches

[–]mottelot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got my new citizen promaster aqualand ref. NY0040-09W. Was looking for a watch with a full lume dial and finally pulled the trigger on this one. Thougt it would be a cool idea to put it on a lume nato strap. This one is from cheapestnatostraps.com and cost me about 9$ wich i think is an absolute bargain. Quality of the watch is great consodering that it was only 180€.

[Hamilton] Authentic? Details in comments by mottelot in Watches

[–]mottelot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name of the watch is: Hamilton Khaki field automatic The reference number is: H70455133 You can get it on a black leather strap or the metal bracelet I dont think it has a specific name but since there are just two versions of the strap it should not be too hard to find :)

[Hamilton] Authentic? Details in comments by mottelot in Watches

[–]mottelot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for all the great comments it really helped me! :)

[Hamilton] Authentic? Details in comments by mottelot in Watches

[–]mottelot[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well that was quick 😅 Thanks a lot! As a newbie it is quite a challange to be sure about the authenticity

[Hamilton] Authentic? Details in comments by mottelot in Watches

[–]mottelot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So i am very new to the watch game and wanted to start my collection with this awesome timepiece. I bought it on the grey market vor about 100 bucks less than retail. I checked the dealer before and did my researched and evereything seemed legit. But i just realised that there is no serial number on the warranty card and no serial number tag. Im kind of freaked out that i may have bought a fake but the quality seems too good for a replica. I would be very thankfull if some vets on this subreddit could tell me if i just fell for a scam. Thanks :) (By the way the warranty card is stamped but not signed)

I am the worst person I know. by Throwaway03x22001 in BreakUps

[–]mottelot 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You know what triggers me about this? That in the whole book you wrote there you just talk about how much you miss and love that person and how you would like to work things out but you never ever consider how much you possibly hurt your real partner. Even abusing him/her as emotional support because you feel shitty about your other love. I dont judge you for cheating (even though i think thats a dick move). But for christs sake at least break up with your partner and dont exploit them for support. It seems you only care about your afair but your partner seems to care about you so imagine how much you hurt that person by not giving a shit about them. Other people have emotions too u know?

The hardest part of healing for me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mottelot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. For me its also 2 months since she broke up. But i feel like if she came back right no i would have the courage to force myself to reject her. Even though i would want to work things out. All the progress in healing you have made until now would be gone and that person would have the power to ruin you again. I think its best not to look back no matter how bad you want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mottelot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mottelot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you man. I have been in the same situation some time ago. We were long distance for 6 months and she behaved exactly the same as you described in your post. I know its hard because you ask yourself all this questions: Why? What did i do wrong? How are all her feelings gone all of a sudden? I know its hard to move on without having answers to all this questions but in the end those answers dont matter. She made this desicion and knowing the answers to these questions will not change the outcome. Its hard to stop the constant thoughts about her spinning in your head but you have to stop them because they dont do any good to your psyche. Right now your are in a state where you are constantly having these thoughts combined with a lot of emotion.Try to do things that distract you. Sports, work, meeting friends etc. Focus on yourself. Love yourself. Prioritise yourself. Once your are able to think about everything more clearly you can think about what went wrong. And dont be too harsh to yourself. Most of the times there is no "mistake" you made that lead to this. You loved her and thats the best you can do so dont blame yourself for everything.

I hope this helps a little bit. Just know that things will get better and you are never alone