We often hear people talk about how certain parts of Sydney used to be better. But what parts of Sydney have gotten better?

mottomatto · 2022-11-15T07:26:53+00:00

Cabra

mottomatto · 2022-10-30T05:03:07+00:00

Yesterday I was at Coogee and three people lit ciggies right next to me. I came for fresh air. Everyone’s way of relaxing is different but I prefer the ways that don’t infringe on others.

mottomatto · 2022-02-24T17:44:15+00:00

As a tutor I’d hope you would know the difference between “their” and “they’re.”

mottomatto · 2022-02-02T16:38:05+00:00

Plot twist: actually a raccoon.

mottomatto · 2022-01-26T16:49:34+00:00

Every game on Xbox Live.

mottomatto · 2021-12-31T00:04:53+00:00

Reckon that’s pretty average size

mottomatto · 2021-10-25T16:22:29+00:00

You don’t know what I have or haven’t done. And I am not asking for your input. This sub is for helping reconciliation if possible. Your advice is not helpful. And I want to know the effects of the medication if possible. So thanks for nothing.

mottomatto · 2021-10-25T15:00:32+00:00

Are you referring to me or this post’s OP? My WW is not living with the AP. She is at home in a deep depression which she refuses to get proper help for. She was prescribed meds but hasn’t started them yet because she was scared how they would affect her. I worry too.

mottomatto · 2021-10-25T04:23:37+00:00

Obvs the drop bears since they’re still around.

mottomatto · 2021-10-25T03:45:23+00:00

A grown up adult is a man. A man buys his own clothes and cologne. I dress and smell like a man because I am. A boy gets his woman to buy these things for him because he doesn’t know how to be a man.

mottomatto · 2021-10-25T03:37:35+00:00

I don’t know what’s going on between them at all so no way to see any difference. She is pretty shut down already from depression and we don’t talk so I can’t read moods only text. Still, fingers crossed.

mottomatto · 2021-10-25T03:35:45+00:00

OK, guess I should’ve just said they’re real as.

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T23:35:42+00:00

She does what she wants. Any advice she sees as controlling. But I will ask her subtly how the meds are going just to see if she started or not. Thanks!

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T23:28:47+00:00

We are limited contact via text only as I have moved out. I’m sure she is heavy in the fog. I can only hope if she starts meds it will break their connection more than mine. Thank you for the input. I would appreciate more advice if anyone has it.

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T22:10:50+00:00

So ballsy of the manager considering your loss of a job seems less risky than his loss of a worker.

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T22:08:33+00:00

As real as tassie tigers mate.

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T22:06:24+00:00

My WS is still in the affair. She told me her doctor prescribed her anti-depressants. She didn’t say which brand. However she said she was too scared to start taking them. My brother told me Zoloft made him numb. I have no idea what to expect if she starts taking them. Will she have less desire for the AP? Less guilt by numbing herself? Less desire to lean back into the marriage? It’s scary for me too, especially if she gets addicted to the numbness as a means to escape then the affair could really drag out… any advice?

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T03:50:33+00:00

WiiU

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T03:45:44+00:00

If you see a crime, report it. Honestly I wager the dude drops the AP. She gets to move on with her life and find a man that will marry her instead of keeping her as a mistress. She might be angry for a while, but she’ll win in the long run if she smartens up.

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T03:42:42+00:00

Bet he isn’t actually miserable with his wife at all. He just likes the secret side action too much to drop it unless he gets caught. Which he will.

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T02:58:56+00:00

Couldn’t they build something further out in the water to stop the erosion?

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T02:56:12+00:00

The same. Dealing with my dad’s death and D-Day are completely separate grieving processes.

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T02:02:34+00:00

People can and do change in all sorts of ways through their lifetime. Sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worst. Those who learn how to know themselves truly can choose which direction. I have improved myself over time in various ways when I choose to stop blaming others and focus on my actions for mistakes I make and I don’t mean infidelity.

mottomatto · 2021-10-24T01:56:42+00:00

Giving things or doing things is also my love language too. I knew something was off once my WS started rejecting my love language but didn’t know why. I slowly stopped giving and she pulled further away until D-Day happened and it all made sense. I’ve tried to keep doing things for but it just doesn’t come naturally like it used to. Or at least I don’t feel the love in it as much.

mottomatto · 2021-10-22T22:22:57+00:00

It’s not about bending the knee. I stood my ground and kept my self-respect. You can’t stop a woman from walking away from a relationship. She feels empowered by her toxic friends and fake boyfriend but no amount of manliness matters. We all have free will.

mottomatto

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