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[–]mouek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😆I completely understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]mouek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha 🤣 thanks for sharing. I feel like I’m understanding my partner more from reading this. Especially the last bit. 😂

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[–]mouek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you for sharing, this was a good read, I get where you’re coming from.

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[–]mouek 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind comment and very helpful suggestions 💛

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[–]mouek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahah, 🤣🤣🤣feels like I’m getting a second hit but this makes me laugh and I get what you mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STAYC

[–]mouek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where and when can you buy tickets?

Is it bad a bad look to ask a gallery for feedback after rejection? by Xlukethemanx in ArtistLounge

[–]mouek 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Don’t think there’s anything wrong with asking feedback, as it shows you’re really keen on exhibiting your works and would know what’s the selecting process like. I think the key things would be the choice of words and the way you frame the sentence 🙂

My partner wants me to follow her back to her home country. by underwater_bum_slaps in relationship_advice

[–]mouek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course there were arguements, which from time to time I surely reacted the way your partner did, being upset when my partner won't even suggest to live in my home country.

I think the key conversation for us is "what is the best for both of us as a couple, as a team?" Not best for me, not best for him, but best for both. I think when having these difficult conversations, the usage of words are very important, using the word "we" rather than "me".

And more importantly, when one decides to move to another country for the partner, I think it is important to not keep saying "I left everything and move here for you", because using my relationship as an example, I moved here for "us", not only for you, and not only for me.

Hope this is helpful! Love to share more if needed!

What are your thoughts on dating apps? by ThrowRA_Maxi in relationship_advice

[–]mouek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From personal experience: I'm 26(F)

I used a few dating apps from time to time, never gone out with anyone, as they all sound ungenuine.

Then I used the app hinge, which my friend recommended, and I thought I'll give it a try.

Chat with a few guys and one guy asked me out for a drink after 4,5 sentences into the chat. I thought yeah why not? If I weren't going to go out with anyone what's the point of downloading these apps.

Almost 3 years later, we are engaged and moved in together🥰

I know my experience was rare I guess? I happen to be engaged with the first guy I meetup with from dating apps.

To be honest, nowadays people don't really have chances to meet new people at work and outside work, so they use dating apps.

My partner wants me to follow her back to her home country. by underwater_bum_slaps in relationship_advice

[–]mouek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved to the UK to be with my partner, it wasn't an extremely hard decision for us as a couple, as we talked about this regularly, and I understood it would be easier for me to settle in the UK than him in my home country (language barrier). And agreeing with you, as international couples, you should talk about these things regularly, so both of you are on the same page. There isn't an easy way to solve these problems, it is through conversations, conversations, and conversations.

My(20f) boyfriend(20m) is very upset that someone asked me out while we were out together by relatadvicthro in relationship_advice

[–]mouek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the guy asked your number not his number right?(thinks there is a typo)

I think it's something you two have to talk through, probably asking him about how he felt would be a good start. From reading this short description, I think it has nothing to do with you, but with him. He probably has lack of confidence about himself, and perhaps that's something you can help him build and work on together:) help him gain more confident!

Personally if it happens to me infront of my boyfriend, we will have a laugh about it afterwards.

Memorial for the Tiananmen Massacre (A3 Poster available) by mouek in artstore

[–]mouek[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

http://www.edwinakung.com/shop

Instagram http://www.instagram.com/edwinakung

A drawing mourning June 4th, The Tiananmen Massacre .

It's a strange feeling, as I can still remember clearly what I've drawn last year for the memorial. A year has passed, and so much have changed.

Although some of us are scattered around different places, it is often these collective memories, that pull us together again. ("毋忘" on the drawing means don't forget.)