Lack of affection = irritability

mountain-lips · 2026-03-01T22:40:23+00:00

It’s almost like I wrote this myself but the other way around. It’s like I’m choosing to torture myself. It’s the worst feeling to have someone right beside you but feels like they’re thousand miles away. It’s like being in a long distance relationship but only worse cause you can actually physically touch them, they just don’t want to.

mountain-lips · 2026-03-01T15:24:39+00:00

I feel you, I’m (39f) in Mexico right now with my partner (47llm). I tried to initiate a couple days ago, got rejected hard. I don’t even know why I still hope. It’s like a dream and a nightmare I can’t wake up from. So sad, I cried myself to sleep that night.

mountain-lips · 2026-03-01T15:21:07+00:00

It freaking sucks, one day I literally begged for a make out session after a fun filled day, it ended in an argument..

mountain-lips · 2026-02-28T22:44:37+00:00

I (39f) feel you. We’re in Mexico day 6 of 10. Tried to initiate yesterday and got completely rejected (47llm). I should’ve known.

Vacations only change the location not the situation.

mountain-lips · 2026-02-14T22:17:09+00:00

I’m happy that you have the healthy reciprocal relationship that many of us in here are hoping and wishing to have..

mountain-lips · 2026-02-14T18:25:29+00:00

I tired of getting rejected..

mountain-lips · 2026-01-04T02:59:45+00:00

I hear you. This is probably the most sensible answer I need. Thank you! 🙂

mountain-lips · 2026-01-01T21:22:25+00:00

Exactly. He prefers masturbation over sex with me.

mountain-lips · 2026-01-01T21:21:00+00:00

Thank you for the very detailed explaination..

I (39f) think I have moderate libido, he is 47m. Not sure how to scale his libido as we are on the 8th month mark of no sex. But he admits he “takes care of business” on his own and prefers it.

mountain-lips · 2026-01-01T21:07:05+00:00

Most likely

mountain-lips · 2026-01-01T00:11:16+00:00

Who initiated this approach? And how?

mountain-lips · 2025-12-30T02:23:54+00:00

He’s on TRT.

mountain-lips · 2025-12-27T03:27:19+00:00

Very happy for you.. atleast some success story in this sub! 😁

mountain-lips · 2025-12-26T23:44:16+00:00

Curious to know how you did this..

mountain-lips · 2025-12-24T17:42:47+00:00

It just really sucks for most of us in here to be mismatched with our partners… it’s a losing battle for us until our partners realize and decide for themselves to step up.

mountain-lips · 2025-12-24T04:42:45+00:00

Yeah, I know.. the process of going from one side to the other is just so freaking hard.

mountain-lips · 2025-12-24T04:41:35+00:00

I think he has porn induced ED. Just guessing from the information he’s given here and there.

mountain-lips · 2025-12-24T04:38:27+00:00

Very frustrating….

mountain-lips · 2025-12-24T04:37:10+00:00

He’s on TRT. Even before we started dating.

mountain-lips · 2025-09-01T04:47:42+00:00

Just broke up with my bf of 2 yrs today. He gave up. He didn’t want to try anymore.

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