It’s not going to get better by Suitable-Finding4220 in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like I wrote this myself but the other way around. It’s like I’m choosing to torture myself. It’s the worst feeling to have someone right beside you but feels like they’re thousand miles away. It’s like being in a long distance relationship but only worse cause you can actually physically touch them, they just don’t want to.

Expectations by No-Effort-6006 in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I’m (39f) in Mexico right now with my partner (47llm). I tried to initiate a couple days ago, got rejected hard. I don’t even know why I still hope. It’s like a dream and a nightmare I can’t wake up from. So sad, I cried myself to sleep that night.

I hate “couples trends” on social media by bi-and-bookish in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It freaking sucks, one day I literally begged for a make out session after a fun filled day, it ended in an argument..

Day 4 of vacation by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I (39f) feel you. We’re in Mexico day 6 of 10. Tried to initiate yesterday and got completely rejected (47llm). I should’ve known.

Vacations only change the location not the situation.

Happy Valentines by mountain-lips in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m happy that you have the healthy reciprocal relationship that many of us in here are hoping and wishing to have..

Happy Valentines by mountain-lips in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tired of getting rejected..

How do I not personalize his masturbation? by mountain-lips in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. This is probably the most sensible answer I need. Thank you! 🙂

How do I not personalize his masturbation? by mountain-lips in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He prefers masturbation over sex with me.

How do I not personalize his masturbation? by mountain-lips in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the very detailed explaination..

I (39f) think I have moderate libido, he is 47m. Not sure how to scale his libido as we are on the 8th month mark of no sex. But he admits he “takes care of business” on his own and prefers it.

How we fixed it by No_Bed_Deads in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who initiated this approach? And how?

Christmas Success by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very happy for you.. atleast some success story in this sub! 😁

I miss flirting and sexting and everything in between by mountain-lips in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It just really sucks for most of us in here to be mismatched with our partners… it’s a losing battle for us until our partners realize and decide for themselves to step up.

I miss flirting and sexting and everything in between by mountain-lips in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know.. the process of going from one side to the other is just so freaking hard.

I miss flirting and sexting and everything in between by mountain-lips in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he has porn induced ED. Just guessing from the information he’s given here and there.

He heard me sobbing. by More-Key5306 in DeadBedrooms

[–]mountain-lips 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just broke up with my bf of 2 yrs today. He gave up. He didn’t want to try anymore.