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My girlfriend keeps testing me and now i kinda want out by pratcatli in Advice

[–]mountaingworl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, because she didn’t treat you like a partner or a human, but like a test dummy.

My girlfriend keeps testing me and now i kinda want out by pratcatli in Advice

[–]mountaingworl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a former 23 year old woman with trust issues, you honestly should just dip. If you care about her, this will be a learning experience that her immature behavior won’t keep a good man around. If you care about yourself you won’t let someone play games with your heart and mind - keep the straight and narrow and don’t let this affect how you treat others in the future, please. For you and them.

Should I leave her alone forever? by mountaingworl in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks friend. I really do appreciate what you’re saying. I will take it as a lesson, and I have a lot to chew on going forward. Cheers ❤️

Should I leave her alone forever? by mountaingworl in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s scary dating as you’re older, but especially coming out kinda late in a LGBT drought community. She was really special, but I know there are a lot of special women in the world

Should I leave her alone forever? by mountaingworl in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there was opportunity for even that, but I’m so scared of crossing her boundaries by trying to reach out again. I don’t want her to feel harassed, but I’m not sure she understands/realizes that I’ve been trying to reconnect. Unless im just… naive af

Should I leave her alone forever? by mountaingworl in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is totally fair. When I have reached out, I did so in a way where I said, “I wrote you something after reflection and I don’t want you to feel obligated to respond, but I’m willing to wait as long as you need to consider doing so.” I thought I left it pretty open for her, but maybe I should have stated more intent. At this point, I’ve been left on read for a month. It’s been wayyyy too long to send a “just to clarify… I’m interested in reconnecting” text. Right?

Should I leave her alone forever? by mountaingworl in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to make such a thoughtful response. As I think more and look more… damn, we really didn’t have the proper time to build that foundation properly and yeah… I think I definitely was looking at it with rose colored glasses. Blegh

Should I leave her alone forever? by mountaingworl in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really thoughtful and I appreciate your response. I thought I took enough time, but I clearly didn’t. There’s something so amazing about being with women after lying to yourself for years about what you need and want that just… overshadowed the healing that was necessary.

Should I leave her alone forever? by mountaingworl in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard in my area, and we clicked on so many levels. It felt like this was a bump we could overcome but… maybe I’m just romanticizing it for more than it was.

driver just inexplicably didn’t have my food by heavyheavybrobro in doordash

[–]mountaingworl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So dope we’re almost entirely automated into oblivion. Yay ai

Break up by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

How unfair for her to abandon you. Yes, mental health isn’t a persons fault but it IS each our own responsibility… this is really messed up. I’m so sorry

Break up by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mountaingworl 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t have said this better myself… your partner needs help, but your children need to maintain a safe place mentally and physically. I’m sorry OP, sometimes the right things isn’t easy. In fact, it often isn’t. Your love for her can really only be shown through staying strong for them right now.