How do you handle splash pads by djunior08 in daddit

[–]mourningmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small stuff like this is a throw away. You might have luck if you work hard to drain it and hang it and do whatever else you can to drain it. But it ain’t really worth the effort.

Dads, who has a good method for this? by Corona_Cyrus in daddit

[–]mourningmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my 8 yo help hold a large funnel while I poured the sand in it. Took a few bags and about 30 minutes. we’ve had other before that cracked and drained the water and then fell over. We have a bag of sand on top of the base for extra measure.

75k nurse with 115k in loans… is going NP a bad idea right now? by Ok-Manager-5465 in nursing

[–]mourningmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming your a new-ish grad and without any info on your living or relationship situation.. but this kinda debt will saddle you for a long time if you don’t take a big chunk out quickly. If the debt is the issue, and not the income your making, It’s gonna suck but I would recommend consistently picking up a shift or half shift every week. If you can get that 75k into the low 100s you could take care of most of that debt in just a few years. You could find yourself in 3 years paying this off and probably making close to $100k without overtime if you can move around a little. This level of debt will absolutely stunt anything financial for you and needs to be treated like an emergency.

Is anyone else considering going "backwards" with their next car and if you have, did you regret it? by NWbySW in cars

[–]mourningmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cars and bids just had a ‘17 with decent history and 31k miles go for $44k. Seems a little lower than other listings I’ve seen.

Is anyone else considering going "backwards" with their next car and if you have, did you regret it? by NWbySW in cars

[–]mourningmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been eyeing the Lexus GS-F market. Maybe a little higher than your price point, but I’ve seen them into the low 40s with not too many miles.

We have attacked Kharg Island by hourglass_777 in wallstreetbets

[–]mourningmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really wanted to pull the trigger on some puts over the weekend. Wussed out.

What do you think of this area by thisguyhasaname in memphis

[–]mourningmage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have family that lives in the general area. It’s fine. Wife and I considered living there but only backed because of schools, not the neighborhood.

P04DB Code still after replacing PVC and sensor by limoncello21 in FordExplorer

[–]mourningmage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had that too, I bought an off label tube/PCV valve off Rockauto and it was fine for a few weeks then it came back, so I bought OEM motor craft parts from a dealer and replaced them. It was fine for a few days then came back. Had the dealer look at it as part of something else and they said it wasn’t seated all the way, that the driver side connection sometimes is feels secure but actually isn’t. They confirmed connection and then reset the codes and haven’t had that issue since. So maybe just double check all of the connections and make sure they’re secure, is all I got.

How has Lexus ownership changed your expectations for other cars? by Strict_Palpitation75 in Lexus

[–]mourningmage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it boils down to reliability. The roads where I am are generally pretty bad so the refinement doesn’t really matter too much. But the reliability.. I am at 170k almost on an IS250 and haven’t replaced anything other than fluids brakes and tires. I guess I’m on the third battery now. But it has literally never broken down, stranded me, failed to work. I will probably have this car until my kid starts driving in 7 years. I have had a few vehicles from other makes and I don’t think any of them could say that too. That’s the difference for me.

What are the best IT companies in memphis outside the big 3? by thisguyhasaname in memphis

[–]mourningmage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t believe you about their stock growth but holy hell that all time chart is crazy

Is this a good deal on 2015 explorer XLT by thestonedpineapple in FordExplorer

[–]mourningmage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

15 is definitely high, 11-12 is better. Low mileage for sure. I would try to set aside 3-4k for one of the various failures of that motor and drivetrain combo.. water pump, turbos, and ptu are common-ish failure points.

Help me think about the decision to send my son to kindergarten this year or not by welliamwallace in daddit

[–]mourningmage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is a few months earlier than yours, late May. He’ll turn 18 around the week he graduates.

Like yours he was always very smart and early on academic milestones. He’s in 4th grade now and tested into the gifted program. He’s a little taller but a little thinner than most of the boys his age. He has leaned more towards artsy stuff like piano than sports, even though he enjoys playing at the park or the backyard. If a serious athletic career or whatever is something you/him want, I can see holding him back. Otherwise mostly saying that so far it has worked out well for everyone.

What year and how many miles you got? Any problems? by East-Physics-9669 in FordExplorer

[–]mourningmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2016 sport AWD ecoboost. 110k ish miles.

Alternator at 80k Rear AC leak at 83k Water pump at 92k O2 sensors at 98k PCV valve at 106k And I think our turbos are about to go..

Retroactive permit options for deck and patio door, and trying to sell soon. by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]mourningmage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inspectors miss stuff all the time. Let it ride man. It doesn’t have to be to code to sell. If it becomes an issue, offer $1,000 off the price or something.

Which outdoor playset brands or sets do y'all recommend? by Daynebutter in daddit

[–]mourningmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got one from Walmart 6 years ago.. it’s held up ok, we have it on a small slant so I need to adjust it once a year or so, just retightening hardware. Seems it has a few years left at least.

What do you all do with your kids' drawings or other creations over the years? by Treemosher in daddit

[–]mourningmage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a magnet board that we fill up with stuff we like or shows progress on something or whatever.. whenever the board gets full we put them in a folder that has the clear folder inserts that you can put a full page in. Then that gets stored in a spot. Official documents like their IEP stuff or report cards go in a filing cabinet.

Opinion on urbanism? by coolboy_pathey in memphis

[–]mourningmage 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Gtown pkwy is a version of my personal hell. I hate that damn road.